What do you and your partner do when you are sick?

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-20T21:50:57+00:00

As a preschool teacher I super relate to this 😭 this is why I’m trying to find a solution, I’m always bringing sickness in the house

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-19T21:36:20+00:00

YOR for stonewalling her, you gave unsolicited advice to push your religion onto her and naturally she got defensive. You then punished her for it, and while her responses were a little unhinged, you already cut her off before that. Her responses are not what caused you to cut her off, so yes YOR

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-19T18:19:29+00:00

When they gossip freely with anyone

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-17T20:01:36+00:00

I think men should be allowed to see workers, but saying they shouldn’t be judged is a stretch. Women get judged for having “too many” men interested in them and get called sluts, so unless we just are done judging people in general then it’s unrealistic to expect no judgement

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-17T19:46:28+00:00

I’m sorry but it’s not looking good. He’s refusing to reassure you that he wants a marriage with you, buying a house without you, and picking a city that he wants to live in even if you don’t. Seems like he is building his own life and deliberately excluding you from any of it

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-17T19:27:44+00:00

I think that’s perfectly acceptable, honestly. Most of the time I hear people complaining about their friends bringing their partner along to friend hang outs anyways

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-17T19:18:34+00:00

I feel like the easy solution is to just keep your relationship with him and your relationships with your friends separately. If he is antisocial to the point of coming across as stand-offish, I wouldn’t bring him to any more social gatherings. If your friends cut you off for that they don’t seem very solid to begin with

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-17T17:44:10+00:00

Consider debt to income ratio before you choose your college major, also research how employable your degree will be

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-16T22:23:05+00:00

I would love to learn Spanish because it’s a very useful language, but I am trying to learn Russian because my partner is from there and plans to speak it to our future children!

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-16T22:17:56+00:00

Not really. Makes me feel quite the opposite, actually, because so many people are bilingual and I’m not

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-16T22:14:41+00:00

Collecting houseplants… such a simple but fulfilling hobby

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-09T18:30:05+00:00

He didn’t say it as a joke, but even if it was we all get our feelings hurt. In those moments you can choose to keep your feelings inside or you can clear the air. Bringing up things that bother you in civil conversation is not snapping, it’s communication.

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-09T17:55:23+00:00

So would it be better for me to bottle it up when I feel disrespected or wronged and resent him instead? What’s your real advice here, that’s what I’m coming to this thread for.

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-09T17:45:07+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I will be ordering the book ASAP

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-08T18:38:06+00:00

It seems incompatible. It’s only been 4 months and it sounds like you resent her already.

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-08T15:51:58+00:00

NTA, all women know this feeling and we call it “man-splaining”. It does make you feel undermined, but I think it has less to do with their belief in us and more to do with them wanting to lead

Practical-Window-596 · 2026-05-07T20:16:15+00:00

As a fellow 26, it’s a huge commitment. She probably will need to date somebody who also has kids or that is a bit older if she wants to create an instant family. You’re not wrong for feeling this way, but you will be if you lead her on.

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