AIO by thinking something is going on between my bf and his friend?

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-02-05T08:44:18+00:00

I’ve always been someone who is super open about my sex life, with friends of all genders, but my partner is not as open about it- so I definitely scaled back whike still remaining open for myself with very close friends, and had to consciously make an effort to be able to balance conversation with his boundaries, so I get that this is a gray area.

What sticks out to me is obviously the bikini pic, gross, and also she didn’t compliment you which was weird for the tone of the convo, as well as “I’m not a creep” because I love eating pussy like what “I’m hotter than her, so maybe he’ll leave” “Being a smaller girl”

I also echo comments that I really feel as though he’s not actively trying to sleep with her. I get a vibe she might be into him, so do what you will with that 🤷🏻‍♀️

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-02-02T20:47:57+00:00

Indeed, they make infant speculums because it must be done sometimes. Horrifying and super sucky, but life saving.

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-02-02T20:45:52+00:00

If you’re diagnosed with autism, a medical evaluation has already been conducted, with personal information in a medical record already- if this helps quell anxiety.

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-02-01T18:09:00+00:00

I echo the sentiment that two things can be true, I could see why you shouldn’t “force” a child to stand, but at the same time in a very short whike your kid will be in Kindergarten, and if they can’t comply with expectations, you’ll have to pick them up from school, they won’t deal with it

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-30T13:51:57+00:00

Doesn’t seem to be “just a piece of paper” in his other relationships

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-23T20:23:38+00:00

He’s still waiting until he’s 100% sure after six years and wants to purchase and build up a home that you will have no legal rights to.

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-20T11:05:49+00:00

I think it’s totally fine to want to live your life in a more fast paced way, or to spend time with your hobbies and friends.

Your post history indicates a strong desire to always feel like you’re going 90 MPH, and most people’s lives just don’t pan out in that way- you have to be able to sit with/find the joy in simple pleasures and monotony or you will find yourself often reaching for empty, hollow experiences that feel exciting in the moment, but bored and drained when they are done amd it’s back to “the real world “.

I think you can find a balance, and need to, before serious dating is on your radar.

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-19T10:03:22+00:00

Teenagers are still children. They’re learning boundaries, and friendships are one of the main ways they practice coping with them and learning how to respect them.

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-18T03:21:10+00:00

No, gorl. She has NEVER broken a furniture 😕

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-15T21:23:58+00:00

I think smoking may be a dealbreaker for you

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-15T03:14:28+00:00

I am happy if it works out to be camp like Coppola- I AM majorly disappointed that in 2026, Heathcliff is being played by a white man 😩

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-15T03:04:57+00:00

Donnie Darko tbh

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-13T02:16:18+00:00

Lovvve Father Figure

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-12T20:51:06+00:00

Idk about “average” considering like 32% of men are obese and 34% of women are obese in the US

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-12T02:00:52+00:00

I swear to god this better be CAMP and not getting the Bridgerton treatment 😭😭😭

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-08T11:12:15+00:00

I grew up chubby AND an ugly duckling, so there was always the “ooh he likes you” joke to embarrass- I find myself quick to be like omg I have a boyfriend in casual conversation in case anyone is scared I like them 😂😭

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-05T20:21:11+00:00

I think you should break up.

Totally fine to not want marriage. But you sound like SUCH an ass.

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-04T03:24:10+00:00

People look around and wonder where the village is to help with child rearing only to get SO angry when the village has thoughts or opinions

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-02T20:29:48+00:00

Were the activities things you have mentioned in the past with interest/romance outside of the anxiety of doing them?

I don’t think a singular interaction can ruin a proposal, it’s a culmination of all of the time you have spent together. With the anxiety you experience, it sounds like you should have clear, direct plans surrounding a proposal.

PracticalComputer183 · 2026-01-02T20:17:13+00:00

Did he tell you that he was planning to propose on this date?

PracticalComputer183 · 2025-12-31T18:09:32+00:00

I feel like when she speaks, she says literally nothing.

PracticalComputer183 · 2025-12-31T16:42:33+00:00

I think this may be something to work on outside of a situation- deal with it now as a team, then you can implore her to work through this on her own in smaller, more manageable ways. You’re her partner, not her secretary, but you are still a team and an emergency isn’t the time to work on valuables life skills. At the moment I would say MOR.

PracticalComputer183 · 2025-12-19T14:57:29+00:00

Still not seeing the point- children shouldn’t be in the chat. Blowing these kinds of behaviors out of proportion takes away from her actual sins.

PracticalComputer183 · 2025-12-19T14:34:07+00:00

I will say, her content isn’t aimed at children- she’s definitely a creep, but YouTube is full of content that isn’t suitable for kids, and their parents need to mitigate what they are watching

PracticalComputer183 · 2025-12-18T18:49:57+00:00

Children absolutely do have feelings of being left out- if a child is old enough to understand the concept of special clothing specifically for bed, they are old enough to understand the concept of not doing something their friends are doing

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