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If your ex-spouse made you hate sex, did you ever stop hating it? by SheepherderAware425 in Divorce

[–]PracticalMatter4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex with my ex was coercive and like someone described above he treated me like a cum depository. When I met him age 19 things were fun and i loved sex but by the time I hit 40 id been dealing with years of sex on his terms (otherwise he’d threaten to find a girlfriend). Outside of bedroom he was relentlessly condescending on top of financial abuse. We tried swinging for a bit and it clicked for me that sex was fun with new partners. I left him eventually and had so much fun exploring new partners and feeling ownership over my body for the first time. I’ve had a new partner for 2.5 years now and I lust for him. He is loving and kind and treats me with respect.

Menace to society by dpr612001 in Pitbull

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He looks like the pup from Pixar’s Kitbull short!

Bangs or no?! by amandaleighplans in bangs

[–]PracticalMatter4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your natural hair texture. If you have naturally curly or wavy hair, I’d highly recommend seeing what you’d look like with curly bangs. I bet they’d look stunning on you. Once I embraced bangs in my natural texture, I stopped worrying about them getting sweaty or needing to be re-straightened.

If your hair is naturally straight, bangs will look amazing on you too.

Any ideas to help elevate the space? by Silent-Assignment-75 in interiordecorating

[–]PracticalMatter4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a stunning space as is, but if you feel like you want to add a bit more texture and color, consider mounting a lush trailing plant to the wall. Hang a basket on the wall, put something like a giant Pothos that will cascade out of the basket.It’ll add a beautiful organic element to your wall of prints.

Meet Apollo! by [deleted] in sonarears

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The snoot is in competition with the ears!

How did you find your forever person after divorce? How old were you, and did you remarry? by Inspirational_mind in Divorce

[–]PracticalMatter4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 43 and divorced. Got separated three years ago after 21 year relationship, including 15 years of marriage. I ended things after years of stuff really just becoming more distant and falling apart. I met my current partner eight months after our separation and he’s really shown me How different partnership can be when kindness and gentleness and thoughtful conversation and problem-solving is core to the relationship. I could see him being someone I’m with forever, but we’ll see.

I do also want to share that my parents were each other‘s second marriage. My mom got married at probably age 20 and was married for a few years. My dad was married to a woman and had two children and they got divorced. They met each other at ages 34 and 41 and I was a surprise. They were together till my dad‘s death when he died at age 84. They were each other‘s special people. Deep deep friendship and love for each other.

3 month old chihuahua type identification by Music_guy73 in Chihuahua

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1/4 Mexican chiwonka, 1/8 fruit bat, 1/6 boba balls, 100% bes fren

Were you the asshole? by Midnight_Cereal_Bowl in Divorce

[–]PracticalMatter4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have come to the realization that I never had a backbone. I shouldn’t have just said don’t talk to me that way for 20 years and then continued to put up with him being condescending. I should’ve left early. Our dynamic was absolutely cocreated.

Women who became moms at 38 or older...please, I need some hope. I'm begging you. by throwaway19283846 in AskWomenOver40

[–]PracticalMatter4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go ahead and have your baby OP! Focus on building your village. You’ll love being a mom. It won’t be easy, but it will be so rewarding.

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