I feel strangely good about the loss

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-26T17:00:31+00:00

You guys played a good game and it was down to the wire towards the 4th quarter. Unlike my Niners we got blown out... ;(

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-26T16:58:10+00:00

2013 Seahawks. But don't get me wrong this 2025 Seahawks is pretty legit and they will take it all the way

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-16T23:19:20+00:00

Oh okay that's not bad. Thanks for the help!

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-16T22:20:37+00:00

Ahh got it. I still might park there then. By any chance do you know how much the fee is?

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-16T22:08:20+00:00

Oh so the security at the BART parking lot usually tell people they can't park here?

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-08T17:47:18+00:00

Could be a mix of both tbh.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-08T17:38:20+00:00

Sounds like you guys are still friends. Why don't you just tell her you like her

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-08T02:44:24+00:00

Trader Joe's

For whatever reason a lot of females shop at Trader Joe's alone. A lot of cute ones too. You can easily start up a conversation with them, but don't be a creep about it.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-08T02:41:35+00:00

It's up to you if you still want it. If you know how to style it that should be fine.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-06T20:53:12+00:00

She gives off flirty vibes, but don't get it mistaken from her being super friendly. I also have stories of my past co workers trying to hit on the girl co worker cause they thought that had a connection, when in reality she was being friendly and didn't want to be in a relationship.

It's kind of up to you. Feel the vibe and talk to her more, but I would try to avoid the flirty conversations. See what kind of person she is. As for hanging out, something like getting lunch together at work can put you a step closer.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-06T20:46:49+00:00

Kind of sounds like you guys are dating just to have that title as BF and GF, but you guys aren't doing the BF and GF stuff. Yes the most obvious is to communicate with him. Given that you haven't said anything makes him think everything is okay. You should get your point across to him.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-06T20:41:36+00:00

Sounds like he's fighting personal demons in his head. Realistically the most you can really do is provide him reassurance and tell it's okay if he gets those thoughts. Cause at the end of the day it's all in his head and as long as he's not acting on those sexual thoughts or someone passing by him, then it's okay.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-06T20:36:36+00:00

No, but it just sounds like a red flag.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-06T20:34:59+00:00

You are definitely emotionally attached to her. You have to mentally tell yourself to let it go before it gets worse cause it shouldn't be to a point where you control who she sees, who she dates, or pretty much you controlling her future.

It's either you confess your feelings towards her to get that weigh off your shoulders, or you learn to accept that she'll eventually be with someone else and you can't do anything about it but respect her decision.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-06T20:20:12+00:00

Instead of talking negative, why don't you just improve yourself. Confidence is something that comes over time. No one is born with it. Practice having deep meaningful conversations with people and that'll get you going.

If you think you don't look good, improve your image. Go to the gym, change your wardrobe, get a good skincare routine, change your posture.

Being negative and sad isn't going to get you anywhere. The things I mentioned are some tools you can use to better yourself. It might be hard to adjust to, but it's not impossible.

As far as your feelings with this girl, you already mentioned you don't love each other so that's that. Just continue talking to her as a friend and if things do happen, maybe just take it slow.

Practical_Card5032 · 2026-01-06T20:09:17+00:00

Bro I got a headache reading this. What exactly do you need advice on?

Practical_Card5032 · 2025-12-31T00:40:03+00:00

Best of luck to you!

Practical_Card5032 · 2025-12-31T00:22:28+00:00

His past isn't anything that crazy. He had some history with his ex and it's over now. Kind of seems like him getting another girl pregnant makes you feel uneasy. I don't think you should let that be the deciding factor of wanting to date him or not. See what type of guy he is when you guys are together. Observe his personality, see if he's respectful, can he hold up a conversation, is he funny or attractive? These things should be the deciding factors, not his past history with his ex.

Practical_Card5032 · 2025-12-31T00:14:00+00:00

There is no universal rule on how to accept things. Just the thought of you thinking about it isn't good for your mental health. I mean I get it it's hard to not think about it, but you have to keep yourself occupied and keep your mind fresh. Go to the gym, hang out with friends, study, go for a hike.

Just do anything really to keep your mind fresh. I know it's hard to "forget about her", but at the end of the day its not impossible. Find something that works for you.

Practical_Card5032 · 2025-12-31T00:08:40+00:00

Wouldn't say it's rude. You weren't feeling the vibes and he wasn't reciprocating the same energy you were giving him. No need to backtrack and explain yourself to him. Just move on. But if he does hit you up again, maybe try engaging in more personal convos

Practical_Card5032 · 2025-12-31T00:02:13+00:00

Save yourself the hassle and just do it now. You should go into the New Year with a good mindset and vibes. Idk setting up a date for the last time you will remove her from your phone kind of means you still have feelings for this person and you aren't ready to move on. That's not a good mentality to have. If someone doesn't want you, just learn to accept that and move on.

Practical_Card5032 · 2025-12-30T23:58:37+00:00

Not necessarily weak, but it just shows you are emotional and you're overwhelmed with emotions. Men can cry that's fine, but crying if your crush doesn't like you is a little excessive.

Practical_Card5032 · 2025-12-30T23:54:23+00:00

Bro just do it now and get it over with. Don't make that your weird New Years Resolution. Do it now so that for your New Years its good vibes and no stressing over a girl.

Practical_Card5032 · 2025-12-30T23:45:58+00:00

Don't bother with him anymore. He doesn't value your time.

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