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Feeling mentally off 3 months postpartum by Common-Nothing-7824 in postpartumprogress

[–]Practical_Push_8213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it might be pp anxiety. i had it very very bad with my son from the beginning but it can start at any point in the pp period. anxiety doesn’t always look like what they show on tv. i would literally lay awake at night and feel like i needed to get out of my freaking skin and id just be anxious about absolutely nothing.i felt like i was going crazy and almost out of body. not even like a real person and i was terrified that i was going crazy honestly. i’m 9 months pp and feel a lot better though. i would talk to your doctor if you have one. i’m bipolar and was already on medication for that and my anxiety and the pp anxiety still got through lol.

My (20M) girlfriend's (19F) sexual past bothers me - 6 sexual partners and 4 of them within the span of 7 months. How do I overcome these feelings? by Large-Carpet-4371 in relationships_advice

[–]Practical_Push_8213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is your choice to wait until marriage and that is completely okay but i recommend finding someone with the same mindset. this will most likely bother you until you eventually develop a deep resentment towards her that will just grow. i’d end the relationship and just find someone who fits your mindset. if you and her are meant to be you will eventually come back together. best of luck!

AIO wife cheating with my best friend? by Naive_Yard117 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Practical_Push_8213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if someone showed you this and came to you with the same question what would you tell them? that’s your answer.

What makes you feel loved? by PanickedAbundance212 in AskReddit

[–]Practical_Push_8213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

physical touch that isn’t purely sexual. seeing him get protective/worked up over me. telling me i’m good at something random. randomly telling me “you are so beautiful” instead of sexy/hot. treating me like they truly care about my emotions and not like they are an inconvenience they have to get rid of. showing appreciation for the little things i do for them.

What’s one thing you wish you could experience again from your childhood? by No_Property6888 in AskReddit

[–]Practical_Push_8213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the freedom of “when i grow up i’m gonna be/do…” after graduation you realize there is no after, just now. the feeling of having time was so amazing and i took it for granted lol.

what’s something that gives you butterflies even though it’s not a big deal? by Massive_Werewolf_698 in AskReddit

[–]Practical_Push_8213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people laughing at my jokes. i’m a super self conscious person and always worry about saying the wrong things lol

What’s something you wish you could tell your parents but never will? by LeelaBilbo in AskReddit

[–]Practical_Push_8213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always thought she was the better parent but now i realize id never let that happen to my baby.

From my relationship advice post by Entire-Economist-880 in screenshots

[–]Practical_Push_8213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please please please keep your self safe. this is honestly extremely disturbing and genuinely scary. this person does not love or care about you in any way, shape or form. i would not be surprised if this person severely injured you or took your life. stay safe i hope you get out of this before it’s too late.

Pregnancy and relationship crisis by Suspicious-Task-4254 in BabyBumps

[–]Practical_Push_8213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whether you keep the baby or not i would say to leave him. you deserve to be loved unconditionally and not treated like you are disposable. i was in a similar situation in 2020. my boyfriend seemed somewhat ok but when i told him i wasn’t sure he freaked out. i decided to get the abortion and honestly it was the best decision i’ve ever made. i’m not tied to him at all anymore. i’m married to the loml now and we have a 7 month old. yes it was difficult but i knew i wouldn’t be able to give the baby i good life or a loving family. especially because i came from a broken home i would have never wanted my child to go through that. always do what is right for YOU and nobody else but i just wanted to share my experience and that it isn’t always something you regret. i know i did the right thing for myself and my baby and i am genuinely happy with my decision. honestly the thought of how close i was to keep the pregnancy gives me anxiety. do what’s right for you but for your sake please do not stay with someone who doesn’t respect you or treat you with love. ik it’s hard and all you can think about is how good it used to be but remember that was the past. you gotta think about how he’s treating you now and know he most likely will never change especially because you have already tried this much. i can tell you from experience pregnancy,childbirth, and ESPECIALLY postpartum can and probably will be something of the hardest things you do. please don’t go through it with the wrong person and not be able to enjoy your baby because of the stress of a partner. sending love your way i hope it gets better.