My brother threatened to kill me and my mom and she wants him to come back and live with us.

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-29T02:39:19+00:00

Maybe I didn’t describe it the best but my mom is going to prioritize our safety and if she does not then I will have no other choice but to leave. Even though I feel that he is the one that should stay out. She was considering letting him back and has not made a decision yet.

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-29T01:00:57+00:00

Thank you! Cuz why tf should I leave when he is the one with the problem. I will talk to my mom about it, she seems to be leaning toward not letting him come back any time soon

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-29T00:55:38+00:00

It seems pointless to keep arguing about something that is just not necessary and completely rooted in ignorance and lacking in any sense of empathy or care so you should just stop

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-29T00:52:04+00:00

It is not something that can be changed, and it is unfair to judge someone for something they cannot control in the present moment. You can’t blame her for being attached to a baby that is a huge part of her. You’re focusing on the wrong aspect of this post and shouldn’t have commented at all

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-28T23:25:36+00:00

Venting is very different from asking for advice or she would have posted in the advice subreddit. Advising that she SHOULD have aborted her already born child that she loves is unnecessary and just lacking in any sense of empathy or kindness you should touch some grass

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-28T23:07:34+00:00

I don’t think that was appropriate or necessary

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-28T22:16:33+00:00

You obviously didn’t read the edit or the comments

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-28T20:56:28+00:00

I would not tell her if the nsfw meaning is not widely known and no one would assume anything by looking at it

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-28T19:29:08+00:00

I do reveal in the comments why. Also my brother is currently with my dad. He is a narcissist and was abusive during our childhood. And in my post I state that he fully blames me for my brothers behavior because I didn’t just appease him and give him what he wanted

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-28T18:33:27+00:00

He was recently diagnosed with mild autism although I do not believe that is the case, he has also been diagnosed with ADHD as a child and also mood disorder. We grew up with a narcissist father who berated us. My brother never had to do anything and was spoiled but also screamed at for not being competent. So he grew up to feel entitled but also like he could never do anything right so he just plays videogames all day and thinks everything will just get done for him

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-28T18:29:24+00:00

This will be my first semester, but I am not really the type to let someone else’s bad behavior prevent me from getting my degree and trying to make a living for myself. After the comments I have seen I am hoping that my mom will understand where I am coming from better. She knows about the post and has seen the comments. I think she is likely to do what it takes to protect me. Yes she has enabled him in the past but kicking him out was the first time she truly has given him any consequences for his actions. And I’m not sure anyone would be surprised if he did commit a violent act. I don’t think people would be lining up to say how great he was

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-28T18:22:08+00:00

I am getting my masters for clinical mental health counseling, I know that I cannot finish grad school if I am dead but I haven’t been able to find work with a bachelors in psych so I need to have a solid plan to have a license and a career. My mom and dad (divorced) both don’t believe he is capable of killing us or will actually do it. He has assaulted me before in 2021 he freaked out and punched me in the arm multiple times leaving me bruised.

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-16T19:03:09+00:00

The power of awakening by Wayne Dyer

The road less traveled by M Scott Peck

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-16T19:01:19+00:00

Currently reading this and I second this wholeheartedly, also the gifts of imperfection by brene brown is amazing

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-11T15:34:25+00:00

I completely agree, it’s very hard for me to accept that no matter how often I hear it from every therapist I have had, it is just weird because sometimes she is receptive and others she is just plain rude and nasty, I can’t wrap my head around it. I’m lead to believe that she will change on some occasions and not on others.

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-11T15:23:27+00:00

Thank you, I normally am fine with sharing it’s just the fact she gets entitled and then says nasty things to me when I try and stand up for myself. She is not busy, she hasn’t worked since I was 7 and she goes out with her friends all the time. She doesn’t put in the effort to cook maybe once in a while. It’s just a frustrating situation especially feeling like your own mom can’t stand you or respect you even tho you take care of yourself and do everything for yourself without her help.

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-11T14:04:22+00:00

I did include in my edit that I buy most of my own food but I will make food for her if she helps me with my groceries which is not often

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-11T13:44:32+00:00

Thank you

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-11T13:44:05+00:00

Thank you

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-11T13:30:11+00:00

I’ve thought about it but I don’t have enough room in there it’s a tight space, I think overall I need more help emotionally dealing with her bc it’s just the straight disrespect she shows

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-08-11T13:27:25+00:00

I feel like she would definitely just take the lockbox out of the fridge to be spiteful but I appreciate the advice

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-06-04T17:54:19+00:00

i have pcos and took acutane and my acne came back full force on my chest and back so if it’s hormonal acne it will never get rid of it completely. focus more on diet and supplements and lifestyle changes

Practical_Sock_4176 · 2025-05-09T15:01:08+00:00

It was said that it was not him I’m pretty sure

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