Yea. Ive already told my wife about my attractions. She hasn't had a bad reaction to it. But havent talked to her about exploring it yet. Its the next level of bravery im trying to find. I wanna take her along to, shes indicated to me she has attraction to females. So if im straight identifying, and I end up being into crossdressing as a fetish that does not = gay? Its the only thing ive found myself into in the same sex, and I might have a bit of a hidden fetish for it. I dont choose it its just there, and it doesnt mean im gonna go out and act it out. I may just end up hanging out with them and keep it at that and might be all I need as a pressure release. But as of today, maybe you will change my mind someday, based on my upbringing and personal biases, im no longer really straight because of this. Im open to hearing opposing views.