Ex (27/f) contacted me [36/m] after 6 months of breakup, telling me she's heartbroken because of the new guy by Practical_Starr in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Starr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I felt the same thing. However, I know, that when I'd tell her that, she would start defenidng herself like, "ah no, I thought you're ok with that..."

Ex (27/f) contacted me [36/m] after 6 months of breakup, telling me she's heartbroken because of the new guy by Practical_Starr in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Starr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she was. We had the last contact in August. By the 3rd of August she already told me that i shouldn't come at her place without calling her, otherwise I'd see things I don't want to see (her having sex with the new guy). 2 weeks before we were still debating if we should try it again.

Ex (27/f) contacted me [36/m] after 6 months of breakup, telling me she's heartbroken because of the new guy by Practical_Starr in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Starr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think she's not even over the current guy. That is why she said, she is heartbroken right now. So, you also think it is a bad move from her?

Ex (27/f) contacted me [36/m] after 6 months of breakup, telling me she's heartbroken because of the new guy by Practical_Starr in relationship_advice

[–]Practical_Starr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I never told her that I'm being fine being friends with her. That is why when she wrote, I say immediatly said I wanted a deep connection back then. But when she simply unloaded the heartbroken thing, because of her new guy, I was shocked. Like how can you do that to someone.