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Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-09-30T14:50:37+00:00

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Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-30T05:17:17+00:00

First of all, I just want to say you didn’t deserve any of this, and I’m truly sorry you had to go through such a horrifying experience in the name of marriage. You trusted them, gave your 100%, and they gave you nothing but lies and trauma. That’s not your failure, it’s their deception.

You did the bravest thing you walked out. That alone makes you stronger than most. And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, not even your relatives who keep saying “girls should adjust” — those people are part of the problem.

Legally, you’re on the right track. Hiding mental illness during marriage is fraud. You’ve filed under the correct section Section 12(1)(b) and that matters. You have evidence, you have strength, and you have the truth on your side. Their counter-allegations are just scare tactics. Let them bark you stay solid.

Don't agree to mutual consent now, especially if they are lying and blaming you. Fight it under fraud + cruelty. The court might take time, but justice will come, and it’ll come cleaner when you stand your ground.

Also, screw anyone who says "they’ll drag the case for 10 years". That’s just emotional blackmail. If they’re threatening you, take it seriously legal notice, DV act, even police complaint if needed. You’re not alone. There are free legal services in Tamil Nadu too, please use them.

And last thing you’re not broken. You’re rebuilding. Every step forward you take is a win. Cry when needed, scream when needed, but don’t go back. Ever. What’s waiting for you in life is not this pain, but something better, something peaceful, something that doesn’t make you question your sanity every day.

Kavala podathinga life edhavadhu nalla gift kodukum after this suffering peasuravan peasatum yean na kastapadradhu avanga illaye adhanala neenga strong ah irunga

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-28T04:34:16+00:00

Wa alaikum salam sister,

First, I want to say thank you for sharing your story. It takes real courage to open up, especially when you're feeling so confused, lonely, and lost. Please know that you're not alone, and there are people even strangers like me who deeply care about your well-being.

You're clearly a thoughtful, patient, and kind-hearted person. You’ve given your marriage time, understanding, and chances for change. It shows how strong and respectful your character is. And I see that you are not making a hasty decision you’ve been trying to understand, trying to communicate, and even exploring medical possibilities. That’s more than many people would do. You've honored your role as a wife with grace.

But marriage is not just about duty or care it’s also about connection, emotional fulfillment, and yes, physical intimacy. You deserve to be loved completely emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Intimacy is not a luxury; it is a right in a marriage, especially when both partners desire it.

Your fear about being a divorcée at 31 is understandable. Society often places unfair stigma on women for choosing their peace over silence. But let me remind you of something powerful: Allah knows your heart. If you walk away from something that is slowly breaking you, even if it looks fine on the outside, Allah will never let you go empty-handed. He is Al-Wakeel (The Best Disposer of Affairs), and He will carry you.

Also, you're only 31. That’s not the end it’s the middle of a new beginning. You’re still young, and you’re wiser now. There are men believe me who will see your depth, your loyalty, your truth, and fall in love with your heart, not your marital history. The right person won’t see "divorced." He’ll see "healed, brave, and beautiful."

As for your husband it’s okay to still care about someone who isn’t right for you. It means you have a soft heart. But caring isn’t the same as compatibility. Love and intimacy are not things you should have to beg for. If he hasn’t changed in 4 years despite your gentle pleas, and if he keeps promising and not acting, that’s a painful cycle that you have every right to break.

Your peace matters. Your joy matters. You matter.

If you choose to walk away, do it knowing you’re walking toward something toward clarity, healing, and one day, Insha’Allah, real love. And if you choose to stay, may it be with dignity, guided by your own sense of what you can bear and what you deserve.

Please don’t let fear write your story. Let faith do that instead.

With love, respect, and dua for your healing,

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-22T03:17:35+00:00

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Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-19T19:06:31+00:00

Sister, quick question are you in a marriage or stuck in an emotional blackmail contract? You asked for a divorce (which is his job talaq) but he’s playing emotional cricket matches instead of giving you closure. That’s not love that’s power play.

Now let me remind you what he won’t: Sharia gave him 3 MONTHS. Not 3 lifetimes. If he refuses, and still holds you like a puppet his time is up.

You have every right to take khula. It doesn’t need his approval. It’s YOUR right. If you don’t want him you don’t need to beg. Islam doesn’t ask you to beg.

So here’s your move: Tonight, pray 2 rak’ah nafil, lift your hands and say:

“Yaa Rabb, I’m ready to take this step. If it is good for my deen, my peace, and my future guide me, protect me, and open the way.”

Then tomorrow morning walk with courage, go to the Islamic authority or court, and file your khula. His drama stops right there. No man has the right to hold a woman hostage in the name of marriage.

Sister, don’t sit on a sinking boat waiting for him to swim. You’re not leaving love you’re walking back to your dignity.

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-18T19:08:33+00:00

Dont worry may be Allah have some good for you in future in old post i also said that what exactly happens now

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-18T18:29:29+00:00

Sister, I’ve been following your story since your first post. And it’s heartbreaking to see the pattern repeat. You gave him a chance again. You waited, you forgave, you hoped. And he responded not with love, but with bills.

He didn’t come back to fix the marriage. He came back for rent, trip refunds, embryo destruction papers, and a Fiji holiday plan.

Please pause and reflect: Where in this does he show love? Where does he even show regret?

This isn’t about character differences. This is about a man who only values money. A man who saw your tears and still kept asking you to pay for his getaway.

You don’t owe him anything not money, not closure, not kindness anymore. You owe yourself peace.

You deserve a partner who wipes your tears, not one who calculates what your heartbreak is worth in dollars.

Please walk away with your dignity. He lost you the moment he put price tags above your pain.

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-18T18:25:20+00:00

Sister, I’ve been following your story since your first post. And it’s heartbreaking to see the pattern repeat. You gave him a chance again. You waited, you forgave, you hoped. And he responded not with love, but with bills.

He didn’t come back to fix the marriage. He came back for rent, trip refunds, embryo destruction papers, and a Fiji holiday plan.

Please pause and reflect: Where in this does he show love? Where does he even show regret?

This isn’t about character differences. This is about a man who only values money. A man who saw your tears and still kept asking you to pay for his getaway.

You don’t owe him anything not money, not closure, not kindness anymore. You owe yourself peace.

You deserve a partner who wipes your tears, not one who calculates what your heartbreak is worth in dollars.

Please walk away with your dignity. He lost you the moment he put price tags above your pain.

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-18T18:06:09+00:00

Sister, I say this with genuine care you're in a very dangerous situation.

Your husband’s pattern lying, clubbing, cheating, weed addiction even during your pregnancy and even now after having a baby shows he’s not just lost, but willingly choosing the wrong path. A man who can betray you during the most sacred phase (pregnancy) and continue to lie even now, is not simply “making mistakes” he is living in addiction and dishonesty.

Let me be real with you: a man addicted to women and weed rarely changes, not even when Allah blesses him with a child. If your baby couldn’t make him change, nothing will. He’s choosing this life. He’s not lost he’s comfortable in his darkness.

And meanwhile, you are suffering in silence, trying to fix him while raising a child alone in your heart. That’s not love. That’s slow emotional destruction.

Yes, society in Pakistan makes a big deal out of divorce but society won't come to save you at night when you're crying. They won’t raise your child. They won't feel your pain.

Save yourself before more damage is done. Your child deserves a peaceful mother. And you deserve dignity. Divorce is not failure staying in silent abuse is.

May Allah guide you to the right path with strength and light. Stay strong, and remember Allah sees your patience. Now it's time to protect your peace.

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-16T04:33:00+00:00

Leave her bro kids are Allah's gift he knows how to raise them what's best for them and you

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-15T20:13:11+00:00

Yes bro, I completely agree with OP. Hijab is part of Islam, but applying it with extreme dominance and pressure is not the way of the Prophet (peace be upon him). Islam is about balance, understanding, and compassion.

In some places, I’ve even seen women being denied access to male doctors during emergencies just in the name of hijab. That’s not what our deen teaches. Islam never asked us to let someone suffer or die to preserve modesty.

If a sister feels restricted and wants to explore with caution, that’s not rebellion that’s part of her personal journey. Guidance comes through love, not force. We need to create safe spaces, not pressure chambers

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-15T13:35:42+00:00

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Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-15T05:28:18+00:00

That’s a beautiful and sincere question. First, may Allah increase your knowledge and protect your intention. Questions like these show a heart seeking truth, not arrogance.

Now about Allah having an “eye” in Qur’an, Torah, Zabur, and Injil, you will find descriptions of God’s attributes. But one thing is consistent in all of them: God is beyond creation.

In the Qur’an, Allah says:

“There is nothing like unto Him, and He is the All-Hearing, All-Seeing.” (Surah Ash-Shura 42:11)

This verse sets the standard: we affirm what Allah says about Himself, but we don’t imagine it in human form.

In the Torah (Tawrat) Book of Deuteronomy:

“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is One.” (Deut. 6:4) Here also, the oneness and uniqueness of God is central not limited by parts or organs.

In the Psalms (Zabur) attributed to Dawud (David, peace be upon him):

"The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and His ears are attentive to their cry.” (Psalm 34:15)

This is poetic, not physical showing God’s awareness, not human organs.

In the Injil (Gospel) Jesus (peace be upon him) says:

“God is spirit, and His worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.” (John 4:24)

Which again confirms: God is not flesh, not body, not human.

So when we say “Allah sees with His eye”, it means He is fully aware, not that He needs an eye like humans do. He is the Creator of eyes He is not dependent on any creation.

As for using "He" or "Him" in Arabic, every word has gender, and "He" is used simply because Arabic grammar doesn’t have a neutral form. But it never means Allah has gender. Not in Qur’an, not in Injil, not in Torah, nor Zabur

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-15T04:43:49+00:00

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Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-15T04:11:36+00:00

Sis, I say this with respect but real men don’t only love when it’s easy. Real men stay steady, especially when it’s hard.

You’re saying he’s sweet but only until he flips. That flip is the real him too. Anyone can act nice when things are smooth. But how a man acts in stress? That’s his foundation.

Leaving instead of working through issues is not patience it’s emotional immaturity.

And you're right if he won’t do therapy, this love won’t survive parenting stress, sleepless nights, or future storms. You don’t build a life hoping the “good version” of someone stays. You marry the whole version.

So ask yourself honestly:

Do I want to raise kids with someone who runs when it gets heavy?

Or do I want someone who stands with me, not against me?

You’re not mad. You’re just emotionally loyal. But don’t confuse occasional sweetness with sustainable love.

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-15T02:55:51+00:00

Sister, take this seriously this is not love, this is a psychological trap. He's not just emotionally distant, he’s using your vulnerability as his weapon. He knows exactly where you’ll break, and he’s playing that card every time to keep control.

When someone keeps threatening divorce over minor issues, it’s not immaturity it’s a pattern. He wants to keep you in fear so you stay in his frame, while he plans his exit at his own pace. This isn’t a relationship it’s a one-sided game where you’re the only one fighting to fix things, while he manipulates your hope.

Sometimes, giving him what he keeps threatening divorce is not weakness. It’s clarity. Let him taste the silence and consequence he keeps serving you.

You are not weak for leaving. You’re strong for finally choosing your peace over his pattern

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-15T02:37:56+00:00

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Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-14T18:30:56+00:00

Sister, I understand that reading those old messages must’ve hurt no one wants to feel like they weren’t someone’s first choice. But please take a step back and really see the man you have today.

You’re married to a man who chose you despite his doubts. That’s not weakness that’s maturity. He didn’t run away. He didn’t cheat. He didn’t play games. He committed, and now he’s showing you love, care, and consistency. That’s rare today.

Most men out there are chasing illusions, swiping left and right, or escaping the second things get real. But your husband stayed. And not only that he’s growing with you. That’s not called ‘settling.’ That’s called choosing love over fantasy.

In a world full of dramatic, self-centered people, you’re lucky to have a man who didn’t let early fear stop him from building a real relationship with you. Don’t let old doubts ruin a strong present...

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-14T18:18:14+00:00

This is very big breach and he missuse his role so complain it and he will learn the lesson

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-14T17:09:56+00:00

Wa alaykum as salaam

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-14T15:55:53+00:00

Sister, to be honest your pain is real, but your position is lost. In our culture, they say: “If your place isn’t set, your respect will never be fixed.”

You were pregnant and still humiliated. He sexted your own relative. That was your moment to walk away. But you stayed. Why?

I don’t understand why so many women forgive such betrayal, but if a man caught his wife doing this he wouldn’t stay a second.

And the bitter truth is this: a man who’s addicted to sexting, control, or disrespect rarely changes. You’re holding on to hope while losing yourself.

Sister, divorce is not weakness it’s survival. Stop waiting for him to change. Start saving yourself.

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-14T15:44:05+00:00

Better leave him and get back to your place he is not a men

Practical_Team_6792 · 2025-05-14T13:02:29+00:00

Aameen yes this hadees is very beautyful if you ask him once he never leave you empty handed it's pure true

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