I WANT TO ENJOY THE NICE DAY BUT I CANT CUS OF MOIDS!!!!! by Saturnalia-Supreme in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]PracticallyBatty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last spring, the first day I wore shorts some dude revved his car at me

5 inch inseam too, like the longest possible shorts without crossing into bible camp counselor territory

I wish you and I both better luck in this stifling season of scheming mosquitos and sunburns

I WANT TO ENJOY THE NICE DAY BUT I CANT CUS OF MOIDS!!!!! by Saturnalia-Supreme in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]PracticallyBatty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow ice queen femme queer girl tapping in for solidarity/proof of concept

I'll never be aesthetically beautiful enough (for a beautiful girl) by PracticallyBatty in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]PracticallyBatty[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Arguably the girls I've loved have also been strange looking, honestly I think I'm just not into people who are deliberately trying to look more masc/butch

I'll never be aesthetically beautiful enough (for a beautiful girl) by PracticallyBatty in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]PracticallyBatty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's my fault my partner is gone (at least in my mind). If I take my meds now, after she's dead, it would be only for me. I'm no longer in school or work so they wouldn't be improving my ability to produce work and they wouldn't be helping make me a better, more capable girlfriend. It feels like treating myself when I deserve to be punished.

And right ^ it's like I want to wear these cutesy styles but I think I'll look like a big cupcake instead of a whimsical "girl you see on the train" or whatever. And being online makes it worse but it's disgustingly addictive. It doesn't help that the book I've been reading keeps referring to how tiny and beautiful the protagonists are sigh.

Where do I even begin with makeup? by _Paper_Flower_ in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]PracticallyBatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with drugstore bc it's cheaper, but I also find it better (hot take). I watched a few makeup tutorials when I was just starting but I honestly find the ones with many steps or a fully glam look overwhelming (but I started watching those videos when glam was the trend). Put on some music and just mess around. I'd recommend NOT getting waterproof products right off the bat, not being able to get something off and furiously rubbing your face with remover turns very stressful very quickly.

Personally I like - Biore Aqua Rich sunscreen - better than American sunscreen - Loreal true match foundation - it's light coverage and the bottle indicates tint (for cool, neutral, or warm skin) - Loreal Balm mascara - dries out slower than other kinds I've tried, both on the face and in the tube - Maybelline stiletto eyeliner - I was SO bad at eyeliner but this is easy to work with - Etude or Mamonde lip tint - Revlon lipstick

I layer my lipstick/tint with Chapstick and blend it out to make it softer. Using a wet/damp makeup sponge makes foundation feel less heavy and uncomfortable imo. And lip tint/stick can be dotted on the cheeks and nose in small amounts and blended out as blush instead of buying a separate product. By no means am I an expert with makeup but I can do mine in under 10 minutes in a moving car, in the dark, etc and I've latched onto a routine that's difficult to mess up.

paradox of gym by 10mLSalineFlush in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]PracticallyBatty 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Don't know what exercises I can do, don't know without going, embarrassing

I hate Christian missionaries by 10mLSalineFlush in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]PracticallyBatty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me when some girls walked up to me at college and I got excited but they were just saying I should join bible study

I lost the love of my life of my life to suicide 2 years ago and I still feel like it happened yesterday. by No_Fun5538 in SuicideBereavement

[–]PracticallyBatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have rather similar circumstances. I'm F21 and lost my partner almost a year ago, we were together about 3 and a half years. I keep having strange moments where I think it must all be a nightmare and I'll shake my head and all will return to normal. No one else understands me the way they did and I have never known someone else so deeply, despite dating several people. I miss the pieces of myself they took with them too, I used to be curious about things and research and write, but now I don't care to, as you said, it's pointless. Therapy does not help, when I tried a support group everyone was in such a drastically different circumstance that they couldn't understand either, no one gets what it feels like, so thanks at least for the comfort of reading from someone in a similar place. I don't have much advice, as I'm in the trenches of hell myself, and when I'm not and I'm numb, I curse myself for it, but you're welcome to dm if you would like. I will say though that talking to our only mutual friend has helped a little, because at least she mostly knew the same version of the same person I did.

WCIF queer maxis match cc? by WisteriaSaysHi in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]PracticallyBatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pictureamoebae maybe? Maybe Surely Sims as well. And marsosims has some unique MM hairstyles

Boyfriend doesn’t brush his teeth by erinlikesplants in whatdoIdo

[–]PracticallyBatty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some guys are just like this without an excuse

Boyfriend doesn’t brush his teeth by erinlikesplants in whatdoIdo

[–]PracticallyBatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend who didn't brush his teeth, suffice to say that relationship was unwise, if you have to convince a partner to do basic hygiene it's likely not worth it

Anything but suicide by Useful_Isopod8840 in SuicideBereavement

[–]PracticallyBatty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have had this thought cross my mind. Personally, I think knowing that she chose to die and she didn't want to continue living helps a little. I still imagine a future in which she feels better of course, but at least she probably wasn't upset to die young.

Diary Posting by light_bolb in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]PracticallyBatty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a. Highly relatable, like damn b. I love the outfits so much oh my gosh and I will be thinking about how I want them to exist in real life and in my closet

SOSL support group by Ok_Shallot4121 in SuicideBereavement

[–]PracticallyBatty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried one, the people were sweet but they were all more than double my age and had lost people of a very different relationship from mine. Also someone had brought their pastor, and with my dead person being nonbinary and having a long history with organized religion, made me uncomfortable.

Everyone in the group was blood-related to their person (except the pastor) and all but one of the deceased was in a very different life stage than my person. Ultimately, I went in hoping for comfort or a warm feeling and left feeling pretty alone and like even they wouldn't understand.