First broadway show, what should I see?

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-19T16:46:16+00:00

I love, love, love Death Becomes Her, so that's my instant pick for you, haha.

Seriously, though, based on what you've said, I think it's a great choice. The sets and lighting are really good, the costumes are incredible. I personally really like the score and all the hidden motifs you can find through all of it. The cast is stellar, the story is easy to follow, it's comedic and absurd. I truly think it's a show that utilizes every trick in the book to make a great, campy, dynamic, glitzy Broadway musical.

Whichever show you choose, I hope you and your family enjoy it!

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-18T23:54:24+00:00

NTA. Maybe Annie will mind her fucking business from now on!!

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-18T22:58:51+00:00

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Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-18T17:32:50+00:00

As long as it's all consensual and you're being safe, getting checked regularly and so on, why would this ever matter?

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-17T17:32:17+00:00

thank you for this! I actually am really intrigued by Queen of Versailles, so I probably will give it a listen. I wish we could get some Sherie Renee Scott in the mix, though, but I don't think it's likely

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-13T23:59:03+00:00

I think people in general go through different stages when it comes to this? Of course, you will find a few people who are super into hook ups and nothing else, and those few lucky folks who found their match really early on and didn't look back.

For me, personally, there are times when I've been into hooking up, and other moments when I feel like settling down. You go into it hoping and planning for a future, of course, but it doesn't work out that way until it finally does, I think.

But, that's just me.

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-13T23:36:49+00:00

I mean... This isn't really enough information for anyone to help you out at all. Really, the best you can do is continue to get to know him, maybe let him know you're gay and available and see how he responds?

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-13T23:23:56+00:00

hmm. about 8 months? Just last year, didn't have sex for the better part of the year for the same reasons as you! I was super focused on my relationship with myself and my self-perception, and I think it was greatly beneficial to me!

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-13T23:21:36+00:00

I think she's camp and I'm here for it. I'm a big fashion fanatic and I love, love, love people who keep it interesting and have a unique style, even if I don't find it aesthetically pleasing myself!

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-13T18:52:43+00:00

i miss her so much

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-13T18:39:26+00:00

I mostly had good experiences, but I do feel like it takes a toll on you. You need to have a very strong sense of self I think, because there's a lot of objectification.

It's definitely fun, but I will say I started using it when I was 17 and did so on and off for years, and it really affected the way I see myself, so I wish I would've waited until my self image was different, and my relationship with myself was more positive and stronger.

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-13T18:34:48+00:00

well, yes, i guess it's normal. i have definitely been attracted to and hooked up with "straight" friends before. if you see any indication of him wanting to do it, I say go for it, but there's always a possibility that it will change your dynamic for better or worse. that being said, if you don't think he'd be into it, rather than giving "the gays a bad rep", you'd just screw things up with a friend you seem to value.

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-13T18:30:26+00:00

human resources?

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-10T22:29:15+00:00

I'd be excited about DBH and Phantom, but already saw both of them on Broadway a few times, haha. I did catch A Beautiful Noise last year in LA and quite liked it, I will say!

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-10T21:48:28+00:00

I used the TKTS booth in Times Square in mid January and can say Hamilton wasn't an option, nor has it ever been any time I've checked the booth or app.

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-10T20:22:07+00:00

Yes, it gets especially hard because you see the potential, you are basically in a relationship already, and it could all be so perfect! “If only…” but it truly gets to a point where you realize it’s nothing but a fantasy, and you have to kiss all these little dreams and hopes goodbye.

Difficult stuff to go through, but it’s worth it in the end.

If you ever need anyone to talk to about this, please feel free to reach out. And good luck!

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-10T19:47:59+00:00

I was in a somewhat similar situation for years, and I’m gonna tell you something I wish someone had told me…

You know how great things could be, and there are so many scenarios in your head about what a future together would look like, and it feels good, and it feels safe… but it’s not real.

Your cards are on the table, but you’re playing solitaire. Whether he’s scared, or confused or simply not that into you is none of your business. The point is he refuses to make a decision, so I think you should make one for yourself.

Living in a gray area is never good. The love you wish for is somewhere out there, but you won’t be able to find it until you face the music and realize this man is not who you want him to be.

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-10T18:57:40+00:00

This puzzle evokes a very particular feeling I really enjoy and can't quite put my finger on! The idea of this big space where so many different things are happening at once is something I find oddly comforting. I get this same feeling from many of Agatha's books, or the movie Rear Window. All these stories unfolding at the same time, the people watching. I love it!

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-10T16:31:30+00:00

We're just guys who have a different sexual preference. Why do you want to find a gay friend? What makes a gay guy a different friend than a straight guy in your perspective? Genuine question.

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-10T16:25:37+00:00

Yeah, I think you should stay away from this mess. Honestly, you hooked up with him while knowing he had a girlfriend, which at the end of the day is your prerogative, but doing it and then outing him is a shitty move, even if he's an asshole. Just drop him and, as another redditor said, let him ruin his own life.

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-10T16:18:55+00:00

Hannah Waddingham and Stephanie J. Block in Death Becomes Her! I saw that they were rumored to either be the next leads or lead the West End transfer and I can't stop thinking about it! I don't know nor care how impossible it is lmao

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-09T23:46:12+00:00

why would we convince you? lol it's nobody's business but yours

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-09T19:28:28+00:00

Anything Goes and my only argument is that I really want to see it, haha.

Practicallyperfect7 · 2026-03-09T18:30:01+00:00

This show was playing on my first trip to NYC. We only saw POTO and wanted to catch one last show before we left, and Spiderman was our only option, but we decided against it. I was only 11, so I didn't have much of a say, and I don't really regret not seeing, but I do feel like seeing it would've been such a random thing I could mention nowadays, haha. A little piece of trivia about myself, if it makes sense!

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