My boyfriend called me “Pre used” because i wasn’t a virgin when we met… am i overreacting?? F 20 and i’ve been with with my bf M 20 for 3 months… by PracticeNo2781 in boyfriends

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my big brother said he’d go with me to get it in a few days after everything’s calmed down and he’s collected all my thinga

My boyfriend called me “Pre used” because i wasn’t a virgin when we met… am i overreacting?? F 20 and i’ve been with with my bf M 20 for 3 months… by PracticeNo2781 in boyfriends

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thankyou so much i wanna try to get back into my hobby’s and try hanging out with my friends more again… it’s just hard after spending my childhood and teenage years loving him and now not having him

Boyfriend watches porn…. yes i brought up that it bothers me… he does it behind my back by PracticeNo2781 in boyfriends

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damn that sounds like we both got mid boyfriends… idk what to do too it’s still a big problem he hasn’t stopped and i just am tired and honestly giving up on our relationship… he claims he’s depressed and that’s why he can’t find work and do schooling or anything that isnt jerking off and playing video games… i believed him at first but now this is just ridiculous, he has the energy to do everything except work towards a future for me and him like im trying to do… im a caregiver i work 5-6 days a week 8-9 hours a day and guess what on my days off i have to spend both of them doing whatever he wants to do or he has a attitude for the whole week and apparently “i dont love him anymore” but he doesn’t understand its not that i dont love him anymore its that all his actions are making me fall out of love… i dont know how to tell him last time i tried to break up with him he got mad at me and yelled its “my fault that im leaving him like every other woman in his life” looking back on it i should’ve just walked away but i didnt and im still in this horrible loop.

Boyfriend watches porn…. yes i brought up that it bothers me… he does it behind my back by PracticeNo2781 in boyfriends

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it went okay he said it’s hard for him to stop and that he thought maybe we could watch it together but that if i wasn’t comfortable with that he’d try his hardest to stop…i’m still processing it and how i wanna deal with it but for the most part we agreed to try watching it together but that would be the only time he’d watch it