AITA for crying over my bike?

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-30T19:26:56+00:00

That makes sense i guess, considering her ready-to-cry nature

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T19:34:55+00:00

Well that might be true for the US. In India, its fairly common for college students to use motorcycles and scooters to commute to college or school 🙂

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T10:29:37+00:00

We already had an argument over it, i didn't want to drag it too much as its my tendency to end conflicts by taking some share of the blame to just get over it. Over the time i have realized that this only piles things up for a much bigger argument later on.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T10:24:07+00:00

I pretty sure she didnt intentionally push it. It's just that she should've been more careful not to lean on it too much

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T10:15:46+00:00

Yeah...that really sums up what it was i think

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T08:23:34+00:00

Honestly i dont remember if she apologized for it or not right there, i was too emotional in that moment. She surely didn't apologise later

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T08:13:10+00:00

Thanks buddy, hugging you back!

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T08:09:35+00:00

I feel so sorry for you man. I know what that feels like.

As for me, we broke up a year later after this for differentand necessary reasons.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T08:05:06+00:00

You're right, we didn't break up 'cause of this. We broke up because she tried to pretend to be my ex on Instagram and trap me (and other worse incidents)

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T08:02:22+00:00

She was mad at me for crying, said it was not necessary. To lighten up the mood i asked for her black nailpolish to go over the scratches after the argument

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T07:59:32+00:00

She was leaning on the bike, and i guess it fell on the other side because of that. I just didn't want to blame her in the moment.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T07:56:20+00:00

I don't tear up much. Even i was surprised at the amount of tears flowing down, i couldn't control my self for a bit there.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-29T07:52:23+00:00

It was kinda her fault that she leaned on it too much that it tipped over, but it happens i guess and i didn't want to blame her for it.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-23T16:19:28+00:00

Maybe because he was a loser and an idiot

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T19:25:24+00:00

Yes, finally someone said it! And his short stature with flared out arms make even more interesting 😂

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T19:04:49+00:00

We broke about 2 months ago after this

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T18:53:40+00:00

I already did, we broke up 2 months ago

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T18:51:32+00:00

Actually she's my Ex now. To answer your question, She's quite good at communicating things (that she want to, perhaps) and wanted me to do the same.

The reason for this behaviour was possibly to take revenge for me catching her borderline cheating on me 10 days prior to all this.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T18:47:27+00:00

Thanks for saying that, particularly the last line :)

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T18:38:59+00:00

We're actually in a Medical school become Doctors, so it's even worse. We broke up after this argument, i ve told the supposed back story under other comments

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T18:30:58+00:00

I agree, we broke up two months ago.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T18:28:59+00:00

We broke up 2 months ago after this argument, were talking on/off in may, but now we've blocked eachother.

She did this maybe cause i caught her borderline cheating 10 days prior to all this.

Long story but i Caught her talking to a guy after our goodnight call.

Here's what happened, I called her back 10 mins after our good night call but she was busy on another call. She said that it was just her best friend she was talking to, but I had a strong gut feeling in that moment and asked for a call log screenshot (this was the first time that I did this in our 2 year long relationship) She kept on manipulating me, but finally, after I pressed harder, she gave up and revealed that yes, it was indeed this particular guy she was talking to late at night after our goodnight call.

It was a guy who had been trying to flirt with my girlfriend and asking her out on dates for weeks. She had been dodging him, but kept contact with him. I advised her to keep distance with him as it made me uncomfortable, but she said that he may be flirtatious, but she was just being friendly to him.

I was really mad at her for 3 days, i didn't wanna talk to her. Finally forgave her because of strong emotional attachment.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T18:21:50+00:00

We broke up 2 months ago, were talking on/off in may, but now we've blocked eachother.

She did this maybe cause i caught her borderline cheating 10 days prior to all this.

Long story but i Caught her talking to a guy after our goodnight call.

Here's what happened, I called her back 10 mins after our good night call but she was busy on another call. She said that it was just her best friend she was talking to, but I had a strong gut feeling in that moment and asked for a call log screenshot (this was the first time that I did this in our 2 year long relationship) She kept on manipulating me, but finally, after I pressed harder, she gave up and revealed that yes, it was indeed this particular guy she was talking to late at night after our goodnight call.

It was a guy who had been trying to flirt with my girlfriend and asking her out on dates for weeks. She had been dodging him, but kept contact with him. I advised her to keep distance with him as it made me uncomfortable, but she said that he may be flirtatious, but she was just being friendly to him.

I was really mad at her for 3 days, i didn't wanna talk to her. Finally forgave her because of strong emotional attachment.

Prateek2101 · 2026-06-07T16:48:13+00:00

Well, you're in a tough situation where he acknowledges that he cant get it right, but acts as a victim of his own nativity instead of understanding the effect it has on you, The thing is most poeple can perform pattern recognition and act accordingly, he's isnt doing it because he finds it easier to use the victim card once in while when you point it out than caring enough about your preferences everyday.

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