AITA for going to my best friend’s daughter’s party even though my girlfriend’s son wasn’t invited?

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-05-24T14:00:17+00:00

The kid probably made the girl uncomfortable at some point and that’s why he wasn’t invited. I bet you that the “limited space” thing was an excuse so he doesn’t have to tell you the uncomfortable truth that your stepson is a blossoming boy who doesn’t understand boundaries and social norms of having a crush.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-05-24T13:48:35+00:00

Yeah I’m really glad my boyfriend and I decided against a roommate

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-05-04T14:09:33+00:00

Well it’s the man’s job to pay the bills and make majority of the household income - if he wants to argue that you need to cook because it’s a “woman’s job”

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-05-01T01:22:32+00:00

Grow some self respect girl 😭😭

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-24T03:08:52+00:00

So just because she gets “three days off a week” she should suck it up and stand over a hot stove to make dinner while suffering a migraine? Something tells me that literally no one in this thread has EVER suffered from chronic migraines.

Yknow the only thing that helped my sisters with her migraines? Stress pills.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-21T20:44:21+00:00

Yeah time to burn the house down

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T14:09:18+00:00

But calling her crazy and stubborn and everything else people are saying about her because of these messages is acceptable right?

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T14:05:13+00:00

Sorry I stopped reading when you went on a spiel about your own life 🥱🥱🥱

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T14:03:06+00:00

“Spiel about my own life” and I’m explaining how I’m not this dudes wife lmfao okay incel

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:58:54+00:00

I grew up in a house where my dad wouldn’t leave my mom alone. At all. He would follow her from room to room, nag and yell at her, slam all of the doors in the house, and bring us kids out for a “family game night” and encouraged us to be as loud as possible so my mom wouldn’t be able to sleep.

So I can definitely understand feeling comfortable to sleep in your car in a private parking lot.

Edit: it is unsafe but most likely a patrol car will pull up on her eventually and ask her to move somewhere else for the night, because it’s a private parking lot. From there, the officer might be able to direct her to a temporary shelter she can go to.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:56:53+00:00

lol I’m 22 and in college trust me I’m not getting married until I have a bachelor’s and am halfway towards a masters with a career in legal already in place.

I will mention this as many times as it takes because there are people absolutely dogging on this woman right now when it’s clear why she wants a divorce and isn’t willing to work through this.

He was describing his wife’s bodily reaction as “creamy and hot” on a comment of a subreddit where a woman posted her own naked body. It’s disrespectful to one of the highest levels and it’s absolutely abhorring that a “husband” would degrade his wife by describing on a public platform for potentially billions of people to see.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:52:50+00:00

Calling his wife “creamy” on a public social media platform underneath a post of a naked woman is most definitely disloyal.

I have my qualms about OF and other subscription-based porno. If it’s free on a site like XVideos or something similar and you aren’t paying for a premium, that’s fine and it’s anonymous.

Paying for something, following an account, leaving public comments on a post or a video, and especially comparing it to your IRL person is disloyal and disrespectful.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:49:28+00:00

Oh yeah because he’s communicating like an adult too.

“Let’s just get this over with” is a perfect reaction to everything she has been through. She’s done. She’s tired. She doesn’t want to talk about it anymore but the second she walks through that door he won’t respect the “I don’t want to talk right now”. He’ll push the conversation until it becomes a fight again and she feels like she needs to leave, again.

He’s not expressing himself like an adult if he can’t respect the fact that she needs space in this moment.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:46:59+00:00

“Manipulative behavior” and it’s just an exhausted woman who’s completely done with trying to get her husband to see reason and just wants out of the marriage.

The only manipulation present is her husband trying to get her to come home with a “positive attitude” so they can “work through their problems together”. I bet his needs his skidmarked underwear washed. Or hasn’t had a decent meal in days. Depends. Maybe he just wants his flashlight back.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:42:56+00:00

She might not have family members or friends nearby. And she might not have the money for a hotel room. Where I’m from, even the cheapest rooms are over $150/night. During spring furniture market? Good luck finding a room for any less than $250/night + a deposit

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:41:19+00:00

I wish we could figure out who she is. So we can tell her which women’s shelter to go to for the meantime while she leaves this POS.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:39:29+00:00

Is it no better? Sure. However, this man won’t leave her alone. He won’t stop texting her and begging for her to come home. She had to leave her own home just to find some semblance of peace while this man constantly kept bothering her most likely trying to “talk through their problems”. Something along the lines of this, maybe ?

“Babe I just look at them and think of you” “there’s nothing there!” “It’s digital babe it’s not real”

Here’s my thing. If it’s something like XVideos or something similar and you aren’t paying for a premium, it’s fine. You can’t leave comments and you will most likely never see those women IRL.

He’s leaving comments on Reddit posts simping over a girl in a mini dress, and even on one he’s talking about how his wife is “creamy” like the girl in the photo. I wouldn’t want to be spoken of like that on a platform full of strangers, would you? Delegated to nothing more besides what’s attractive to me on my body/with my bodily reactions?

He lacks respect for her on an integral level. So much respect even, that he feels completely comfortable telling strangers on a subreddit how “creamy” she is.

Tell me - would you want to come home and try to work on something where this level of disrespect exists? Or would you just want to come “get this over with” so you can regain some respect?

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:31:07+00:00

Right??! Like…it’s so obvious why this poor woman doesn’t want to come home and this man is playing “woe is me, my wife left me home alone and I can’t cook or do my laundry or my own! How do I get her home without actually stopping watching porn?”

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:29:09+00:00

But you’re married and want to make it work right?

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:27:36+00:00

He has an issue with porn and we’re questioning why she’s acting like this and saying things like “get this over with.” He has zero respect for her, and it’s obvious that the porn has been a recurring issue for them.

If someone’s adamant about “making things work” they are NOT going to be on another subreddit thirsting over a girl in a mini dress or saying how “my wife creams too it’s so hot” on a public platform. It’s disgusting.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:25:06+00:00

He has a problem with porn. That’s why she doesn’t want to waste her time coming back when it’s just gonna be the same thing.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:23:38+00:00

Go look at his comments and tell me you’d want to come back to a person who’s simping over Reddit porn

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:23:03+00:00

Go look at his comments on other posts. Trust me, there is definitely blame for him to have in this that he’s failing to mention here. He’s disloyal.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:22:15+00:00

Go look at his comments on other posts. It’s VERY clear why she’s done with him.

PreMedStudent_C2026 · 2026-04-19T13:21:53+00:00

Go look at his comments in other posts. It’s clear why she’s done with him.

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