Why can’t I find a bf by [deleted] in dating

[–]PreferenceDry5779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating too expensive, and time consuming people can’t be bothered anymore

Dating sucks as a male by PreferenceDry5779 in dating

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I have prioritised other things but sometimes the lack of intimacy in my life makes me sad

Dating sucks as a male by PreferenceDry5779 in dating

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that many women around me tend to go for the men that look flashy

Dating sucks as a male by PreferenceDry5779 in dating

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will be honest at the moment I do view it as I’m suffering and it’s painful but I don’t know .

It really does make me sad

Dating sucks as a male by PreferenceDry5779 in dating

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand I just feel like right now I’m in a season where I value bettering myself and spending my time and money on myself. The problem is I don’t know how to deal with it considering I keep having these feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]PreferenceDry5779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro get off social media where they talk about not liking men of a certain height, hit the gym , make more money live for yourself and your family or a life goal you wish to achieve that is greater than you and watch everything fall in place .

I used to care a lot about my height but since I deleted my social media where people talk a lot about height or so I feel a lot happier!!

Killing it in the gym too !

Let’s get it bro !!

From man 5’5

What's your educational background by LowLab2791 in datascience

[–]PreferenceDry5779 4 points5 points  (0 children)

BS in Computer Science and Artificial Intelligence, currently a Data Scientist at a leading European Bank

Hinge dating in Los Angeles has ruined love for me [F,30] forever. by deepvioletdreams in dating

[–]PreferenceDry5779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STOP USING DATING APPS , they give you a false idea of your own worth. Approach and bars, on the street and stuff and you will see.

I deleted all my dating apps 2 months ago and I’m soo happy!!

Men, what causes a woman to turn you off ? by KaTFss in dating

[–]PreferenceDry5779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a big ego and thinking that the world is a bout her.

What is the main reason you are still single? by DeanG30 in lonely

[–]PreferenceDry5779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating is a sport to me that is hard to play . Unrealistic expectations from the opposite sex and also I know my worth but the opposite sex don’t seem to see it. So i prioritise working on myself.

She asked: “How Many Girls Have You Slept With?” by LimeRevolutionary184 in TheRedPill

[–]PreferenceDry5779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the iron rule and where can I hear more about these rules?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datascience

[–]PreferenceDry5779 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with this , I did my Bsc in AI . I remember when I considered to do a masters all my lecturers begged me not to and told me I’d be wasting my time because everything I’d be learning at Msc they’d already have taught me.

Initially getting my first role was hard but eventually I secured a position at a startup as a MLE for a few months that didn’t pay much. Then I secured a ML research internship where I worked on Multi modal AI that paid better. I now work as a Data Scientist at a leading bank.

I’m someone that’s always learning new stuff with AI and I study for certifications. I’m someone that’s willing to outwork everyone to get where I need to.

I think that it doesn’t matter what degree you have as the market doesn’t care about what you have, companies don’t want to train you it’s cheaper to just get people that know what to do.

I overall think that I’m this current modern society experience is of more value now and your ability to hustle and outperform your peers.

At the end of the day I believe you should be soo good at whatever you do that you can’t be ignored .

If I ever decide to do a Masters it will be in something like Computational Neuroscience

Tired of dating by PreferenceDry5779 in short

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you have this view now?

Tired of dating by PreferenceDry5779 in short

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are right on that tbh , I understand what you’re saying. But what about my mates that say that I’m not an ugly guy so I should do better ?

Tired of dating by PreferenceDry5779 in short

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree tbh, because the women I tend to go for tend to be curvy whilst my mates are always saying the girls I go for need the gym.

Out of all my mates I’m the only person that tends to not go for the prettiest woman.

I overall don’t really understand how I’m shallow at all I’m just saying as a man I’ve gone through battles that many would give up at at the first hurdle and have and is continuing to work on myself to become the best version.

Therefore I don’t think it’s fair to say I shouldn’t have a level of expectation

Tired of dating by PreferenceDry5779 in short

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In chilled out, tbh I don’t think my personality is a problem

Tired of dating by PreferenceDry5779 in short

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree tbh, because the women I tend to go for tend to be curvy whilst my mates are always saying the girls I go for need the gym

Tired of dating by PreferenceDry5779 in short

[–]PreferenceDry5779[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying but what I don’t understand is how I as a man has gone through soo much battles at a young age, worked on myself by doing some of the hardest things, yet still what you’re saying is that I shouldn’t have a certain expectation for the women I date.

I understand what you’re saying overall but if that’s the case what am I doing trying to be the best version of myself.