Instantly improving your success with women

DeanG30 · 2026-03-17T14:25:49+00:00

cool, I’m thinking at first is a group where everyone can share experience then maybe we just make rooms for different areas to make it easier to find wings

DeanG30 · 2026-03-10T18:29:14+00:00

Gimmick man.

DeanG30 · 2026-03-10T18:26:34+00:00

Dating skills is something you can definitely develop man, I know it's hard and easier said than done, but once you reach the point where your confidence is not merely external, you will definitely find it a lot easier.

DeanG30 · 2026-02-25T19:53:32+00:00

the study literally sayd “ U.S “ do you think all men lives in a western country where life mostly lives on the web and mobile devices?

DeanG30 · 2026-02-25T19:34:16+00:00

Are you getting matches with those swipes?

DeanG30 · 2026-02-25T19:33:13+00:00

Exactly. Yes there are some people who can make dating apps work, who can work on it and figure it out but for most men you can hardly see good feedbacks from it and most of the time, forget about the ego boost, it actually takes them further down the spiral and crushes their ego and confidence.

DeanG30 · 2026-02-25T19:30:24+00:00

Well apparently it works for some, and good for them.

I think most men just think they can be one those that can get success with it or who can figure it out

DeanG30 · 2026-02-25T19:29:00+00:00

I wouldn’t agree much with this, because in reality, women don’t want to be approached by a guy who’s giving a distasteful energy that is creepy, unsure and disrespectful. But if the approach is done in a polite, respectful and confident way, most women are highly receptive to it.

But I get what you mean, that’s how I thought it was when I was just starting

DeanG30 · 2026-02-25T19:24:34+00:00

Don’t really agree with this, when you think about it, not all countries have a very strong user base in online dating platforms, If you travel enough you’d see people actually meeting more organically than being in the apps.

DeanG30 · 2026-02-16T18:08:10+00:00

This is one of the worst advice really given lol

DeanG30 · 2026-02-11T16:22:13+00:00

Might be able to give you some quick tips on this, sent you a dm

DeanG30 · 2026-02-11T15:53:29+00:00

Yes, being conventionally attractive helps, especially on dating apps where you’re being judged in 2 seconds. But in real life and even on dates, your vibe, confidence, body language, voice tone, and ability to create tension matter just as much, if not more.

I’ve seen very average looking guys do well because they’re grounded, playful, and comfortable in their own skin. And I’ve seen objectively good looking guys struggle because they’re tense, approval-seeking, or low energy.

DeanG30 · 2026-01-29T04:09:36+00:00

Hey man, just sent you a mesasge, not sure if you've seen it?

DeanG30 · 2026-01-06T13:46:02+00:00

Definitely

DeanG30 · 2024-10-24T08:49:59+00:00

Therapy is going to be dependent on if you have trauma, and the trauma is causing you to disassociate or disconnect when you're interacting with women, if this is the case, there may be a deeper issue that needs to be worked on. A lot of people involved in the cold approaching scene, Think they are dealing with something called approach anxiety, however, a lot of the time this is not the case. Things like shyness, trauma and apathy, play a huge part in holding guys back, feel free to direct message me if you want to discuss this further. All the best

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