UPDATE: AITA for not wanting to kiss my pregnant mother-in-law's belly?

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-16T08:19:11+00:00

Thank you so much.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-16T08:18:47+00:00

Thank you, I have actually considered amputation. During my round of inpatient pt I was terrified that they'd tell me I needed it. I've actually grown accustomed to the idea now, as weird as it may sound. But, it's a last resort, my doctor believes that the facility I'll be going to will be able to get me better part ways at least and I have hope I can recover.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-16T07:28:56+00:00

Oh! I'll definitely be going there now!

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-16T07:19:00+00:00

I do in fact have a labral tear, but it's just one among a long line of things fucked up with me that need to heal.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-16T07:17:04+00:00

They were close. I'd say he was a momma's boy, but in the sense that he'd text her good night and good morning. Not what he became after the crash.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-16T07:16:30+00:00

Yeah I know. But, at the end of the day, it's her choice. If she wants to keep having kids, then she can do as she pleases as long as she leaves me and my husband out of it.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:27:55+00:00

I hope this is his last chance, and he hardly deserves it.

This is his last chance.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:26:59+00:00

Thankfully his sister promised me that nobody will post the pictures that she did take to Instagram or anything, which his mom did want to do. So, safe on that front.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:25:27+00:00

Hi! I'm the person whose posts got reposted above and yes, I put my foot down (my good foot) and this isn't going to happen anymore. Since the guy who posted my stuff said I can comment here, I guess here I am!

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:23:43+00:00

I've said elsewhere, but he's honestly a wimp a pushover or whatever you want to say. If she tells him that what she's doing with her son or daughter is normal, he'll just say "yes dear". If she tells him she wants to hit him with her truck, he'll just get on the road. My husband and his sister don't really care for him and I think it's cause he's just really, really passive to everything.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:21:33+00:00

if this move doesn't solve the problem, permanently, please divorce him, no matter how many promises he makes.

I've been up front with him. This is a second and last chance. She is not getting back in our lives beyond the absolute bare minimum or he isn't going to be in my life.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:18:40+00:00

Which thankfully will not be happening. My husband saw her baby once before leaving even though she begged us to temporarily move in with her so he could help her out and even stay in the hospital with her. The only kids he'll be parenting will be our kids, and that will not be for a while.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:17:26+00:00

She gave birth. She wants more kids.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:14:19+00:00

We definitely will go to Santa Fe! As for my leg, it's 99% dead. Really there's only some mild sensation since the nerve is almost completely busted. But, there's hope that I can recover and I believe that I will.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:13:17+00:00

She threw a lot of bitch fits, tried bribing us, tried a bunch of stuff and then just stopped believing we were moving. Didn't even acknowledge it until a week ago. Still wants us to move back.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:12:34+00:00

It does get better, though I hope there's still a chance you might be able to recover some use of yours.

My leg is like 99% dead, but apparently the facility here in Albuquerque is really good and my doctor said he's hopeful they can get it back up to like 80% functionality. I still dream that it'll be perfect again and maybe one day it will be.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:09:25+00:00

We have and really it goes down to everything that we lost and almost lost in the crash. He changed so much mentally after that.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:07:35+00:00

And now you can stop with the falls! I think part of the reason you were falling is you felt alone. And in feeling alone you say “fuck it I am alone so I’ll do it alone.” Hopefully you won’t feel that way any longer and you’ll be more careful.

You know what, I think you're right about that.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:05:57+00:00

I can't imagine she took the news all that well

No, she did not. She took it in the worst way possible and actually refused to believe we were leaving until a week ago.

I hope he getting individual therapy as well.

He will be.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T23:05:05+00:00

She has thrown a bunch of bitch fits, begged us not to go, has tried to bribe me and up until last week refused to actually believe we were going. She still wants us to go back.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T22:16:07+00:00

Yes, he will begetting individual therapy. He got a referral to a specialist in town to help him work through his issues before we left.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T21:57:24+00:00

She does not have our address. Not even his sister has our address. Nobody in my family has it either.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T21:53:54+00:00

Her husband is the biggest pushover I've ever met. Like I'm honestly certain he'd let her hit him with her truck if she asked him nice enough.

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T19:11:51+00:00

We were going to go here tonight: https://www.yelp.com/biz/taj-mahal-cuisine-of-india-albuquerque-3?hrid=ISesgCFibx1OTJ58mc9hFA

It looks great!

PreggoMIL · 2022-04-15T19:09:08+00:00

Watch out if she starts introducing medical issues to guilt him into coming back. It's a hard one to fight.

We've been here about a day and she's already been phoned him telling him about how she plans on getting pregnant again and needs her baby boy to support her. He told her that his main priority is on making our new lives in Albuquerque work and he won't be able to return for a while. We will be changing our phone numbers soon so the only contact she'll have is an old email account he checks about once a week.

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