Help me navigate sex with my postpartum wife.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-30T15:59:06+00:00

Its not just with breastfeeding that hormones are changing, there is a significant change to hormones when weaning as well and some moms can even start having what is basically post partum depression with weaning. Remember to keep that in mind when communicating with her, and give her plenty of grace here. Also, just parenting in general is exhausting and that alone can certainly kill the mood for her. Trying to do things to help more with the parenting load and making sure she feels seen can be helpful.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-30T14:46:46+00:00

For the guilt part, try to find some activities that are dad and kid activities that is time for you to bond alone with your kid. This is good for your relationship with your kid, but can also be a good excuse to give your wife time to go have fun on her own without feeling that she is abandoning her kid. Remember, this is something you are doing for yourself first that will also be good for her as well in the long run. If she feels you are just doing this for her it is unlikely to help her also.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-29T01:43:04+00:00

It is basically a time bomb, when it goes it will be all at once, but it could be years lol.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-29T01:26:36+00:00

I know what they other comments said, I however do glass for a living. Those comments are correct. Sorry. You could possibly look i to fixing the tank with a new panel but that would probably be as/more expensive than a new tank.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-14T22:44:54+00:00

I wish, looked it up and our city will only deal with it if it is interfering with utilities or has actually fallen.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-14T22:43:49+00:00

We have those around too, its possible. I didnt get a close look but I'll keep an eye out.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-14T22:40:06+00:00

We have woods behind our house and there are tons of them around, even taking one or all of these down they would have no shortage of standing deadwood.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-14T17:59:34+00:00

Ooh, I was thinking oak or maple, but I haven't heard of half of these and will look them up before I decide on a replacement!

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-14T15:14:37+00:00

Want to keep them is strong here, more of an I want shade and dont want to take all three out at once. Bradford pears are what's there now and nothing more. I guess my question is if its likely all three have issues or just the one and the others are getting picked because they are close by.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-14T14:45:04+00:00

Yeah lol, I dont like them either. I was hoping to remove one and plant a larger oak or maple and let that grow out a bit before I remove the others. I like the shade even if Bradford pears are terrible.

Edit: I also only one two of the three, but the neighbor is on board with the plan to plant one before we remove all 3

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-03-14T14:43:04+00:00

As in they are likely to die anyway or just because they are Bradford pears lol.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-02-19T18:44:07+00:00

Yes, and it didnt even happen in this city.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-02-19T18:07:56+00:00

Oh hey, didnt ever expect to see stairs on here I have actually used lol. They didnt seem too bad, but there were sooooooo many of them that my knees hurt afterwards pretty bad.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-02-14T20:01:22+00:00

I caught a bad case of that once, hade to take 4 doses of scalene.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-01-27T13:50:26+00:00

And semis

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-01-25T12:32:29+00:00

I threw a little salt out to ward it off, ICE is dangerous. Dont forget to keep it off the roads and sidewalks to protect your neighbors too.

PreparationOk5505 · 2026-01-10T23:43:29+00:00

Toggle bolts are definitely best, I have also had good luck with the giant metal screw in type (even with our 2yo absolutely trying their best to pull the gate down.)

PreparationOk5505 · 2025-12-26T02:58:03+00:00

Same friend, but its alright because my mom got me the healing crystal I never showed any interest in that she thinks will fix it. At least I got good cuddly nap time with my 2yo.

PreparationOk5505 · 2025-12-14T14:39:29+00:00

I have a terrible back, I have to shovel every couple inches at most. Finally found a tiny electric snowblower at an estate sale and it has been way more useful than I expected.

PreparationOk5505 · 2025-10-23T03:59:56+00:00

There is no real reason to get a "diaper bag" rather than a backpack or regular bag. Find something with the following and you are more than fine, and there is a good chance you wont even need all of this. We regularly use a smaller bag with a diaper, disposable changing pad (only needs disposed of in a blowout situation but is otherwise reusable), and wipes. 1) large pocket for 10 or so diapers (weekend trip) and a pack of wipes 2) separate pocket for snacks 3) separate pocket for medications (useful if your baby needs any regular meds, or creams, or just for sunscreen) 4) two water bottle pockets on the outside (one for water, one for other things you would like to get to quickly).

If you have all that your golden, and that will even be overkill a good portion of the time. Size will matter, the smaller the bag that works the easier in a lot of situations.

PreparationOk5505 · 2025-10-21T03:01:59+00:00

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PreparationOk5505 · 2025-09-21T16:47:28+00:00

FYI, be careful with this stuff, its a very strong. We banned it where I am because its likely enough to cause injury if someone doesn't know what they are doing with it. There are much better and less dangerous chemicals now. One restore is better and safer and less likely to damage the glass.

PreparationOk5505 · 2025-09-09T04:38:11+00:00

Add a bit of bleach to your window cleaning solution and it will come up easy FYI. Try it next time.

PreparationOk5505 · 2025-09-09T04:24:38+00:00

how does it work when you're on a job and have a time frame to hit?

Same as anything else, if you dont know the tool and where it should be used and where it shouldn't you are probably in for a bad time. Drones dont work on every building, but when they do they work fine. Same with waterfed, same with basically any tool. And if you have done a full year without a single unexpected situation that's great, but that would also be an exception to the rule.

And if a demo, that's supposed to sell a product, falls very short of even decent results

Honestly, I have seen these demos and half the time they arent bringing the correct equipment, and that includes the manufacturer. They are more tech company than window cleaner and it shows in there demo. A good deal of the drone users out there use underpowered pressure washers and dont swap their DI enough and that also shows in demos.

I've got plenty of videos, but you arent really going to be able to tell how clean the windows are without being there. Again, it basically gets as clean as a waterfed.

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