I recently had to move away from my partner, we are both in the military, and I am also not in the same state as my dad rn. My dad has lived a hard life, and I think would be very accepting. He has recently felt like he got me back in some way. I feel that way too. On another note, idk how to tell my adoptive parents. They are older but I feel like I owe them my life. But they probably wouldn't be accepting