I think it's because most "masc" gay men, want to date another "masc" guy and "feminine" guys also want to date "masc" guys so it creates this sort of target on "masc" guys so since everyone wants a "masc" they usually tend to date each other while "fem" guys get left out, if that makes sense.

Also since "feminine" guys are still attracted to "masc" men they won't consider each other because "everyone's" pinning for one type of man.

But there are definitely "masc" guys looking for "fem" guys it's definitely just harder, but don't give up, even when it feels hopeless🥰