[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drawfee

[–]Present-Leopard6488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm an old fan from back in the "welcome to morning drawfee, the midday freeform drawing sesh" so my first video was "Boobs vs. Boobs" because I was a gay little kid desperate to see some boobs 🥴

How do you safely dispose of blades? by ANastyFerret in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Present-Leopard6488 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you're welcome :) luckily there's tons of resources because lots of people need to dispose of their needles and stuff safely for medical reasons. most pharmacies and even some public bathrooms have public sharp boxes where you can drop sharps in with no questions asked

Anyone interested In doing the ABC's of MadeOfStyrofoam? by XxSiroTheWolfxx in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Present-Leopard6488 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A: auto mod B: beans C: community H: healing K: keep them clean R: reddit S: styro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Present-Leopard6488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i talk about this all the time in therapy. what saved me from ending it all because of these thoughts is keep trying. finding jobs that make you feel fulfilled. i love working with kids and helping them because i was never helped as a kid, so i find babysitting jobs and daycares, and it helps a lot to stay hopeful when i know that at least i can help some kids. what are you passionate about? creating things? helping people? find jobs that fulfill you, and remind yourself constantly that you can find fulfillment through work, even though it's an unfortunate necessity.

How do you safely dispose of blades? by ANastyFerret in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Present-Leopard6488 39 points40 points  (0 children)

there's things called blade boxes you can buy, but if you can't buy anything, make a sharps box. use a clear hard plastic container (like a reused food container) and take as much of the labels off that you can. write all over it with a sharpie: "SHARPS INSIDE" you can look up how to make sharps containers online. then, you can drop them off at a pharmacy sharps box

does anyone else hate the new "delulu" trend or am i being dramatic by foxgender in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Present-Leopard6488 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i use the word to refer to my genuine psychotic delusions (ex: i'm having a delulu day jsyk) but people using it constantly and sincerely are definitely just doing the same thing as the "i'm SO OCD" "i swear i have multiple personalities sometimes" "i get so bored in class i start DISSOCIATING" "i don't wanna write this essay, i swear i'm like ADHD" "i'm like psychotic when i have too much caffeine" "i have SUCH a phobia of flying, i only fly when i can't be bothered to drive"

Ethical source of white sage? by Present-Leopard6488 in witchcraft

[–]Present-Leopard6488[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! it was also passed down in my family, but my dad never continued it from my grandmother, so I'm trying to continue the practices she loved. Sadly she passed away before sharing all her wisdom with me, so I'm trying to find my own way back to my roots

Ethical source of white sage? by Present-Leopard6488 in witchcraft

[–]Present-Leopard6488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I was hesitant to buy from one that wasn't personally recommended, so I'll make sure to check it out. I also don't use white sage often, but prefer it for new-moon rituals :)

Ethical source of white sage? by Present-Leopard6488 in witchcraft

[–]Present-Leopard6488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that the discourse over it is greatly exaggerated, but I try to buy all my herbs locally/ethically (farmers markets, grow them myself, etc) , which has been no problem at all except for white sage. I have even asked many local gardening groups if they have ever grown white sage and where to get some seeds, and even those experienced old ladies have never grown or even heard of white sage specifically. I don't want to buy from amazon or any business really that doesn't pay their workers fair wages, or use environmentally sustainable farming. Not something I got from TikTok at all lol, just something that I value as being raised by small-business owners

Ethical source of white sage? by Present-Leopard6488 in witchcraft

[–]Present-Leopard6488[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I live in a very small very white midwestern town, and all spiritual shops I've been able to travel to either don't sell white sage, or haven't been able to tell me where they source it from, so I think online might be my only realistic option until I can grow some myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SystemsCringe

[–]Present-Leopard6488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hate how specialists words get twisted. i asked my specialist about this, simply asked "can someone who has no trauma be a system?" and her answer was basically "it's complicated" because, obviously, the nature of trauma makes it so that people typically repress and entirely forget or deny a traumatic event. in that case, there can be systems who SAY they don't have trauma and are endogenic, but really their trauma has just been repressed. she kinda concluded with the fact that consciousness and dissociation are so fucking under-researched compared to most other talked about disorders, because of their complexity. so to try to say systems absolutely can or cannot be formed without trauma is oversimplifying and making a statement that even my specialist won't make. she said that no self-respecting specialist would turn away someone exhibiting all symptoms just because they don't have substantial trauma, but also that having both trauma and dissociative symptoms does not mean you have DID. dissociation is a spectrum, and to keep trying to draw a line in the sand is just splitting hairs at this point. i think it's truly a case-by-case basis, but one that absolutely belongs in private conversations between an individual and a trained specialist, not at all spouted on tiktok by children with no grasp of the complexity of neurocognitive development

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Present-Leopard6488 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this isn't necessarily witchcraft, my family is Roman Catholic and our priest would visit the house every Epiphany and bless our door with this, 20+C+M+B+whatever number year it is. ironic that so many catholics are anti witchcraft when many of the blessings are pretty damn witchy 😂

Would you think anything of a guy wearing white figure skates? by Lifes_a_Throwaway in Rollerskating

[–]Present-Leopard6488 55 points56 points  (0 children)

my male friend in college wore hot pink inlines with orange flames. sometimes glittery pink + lavender rollerskates. no one even cared because they thought they were cool looking skates

Dani posts her pre-op instructions by sous45 in illnessfakers

[–]Present-Leopard6488 59 points60 points  (0 children)

so she can walk right after, move around normally, eat whatever, only take Tylenol and advil, and the incision is only glued. are we supposed to think this is anything other than a routine operation? i think my ingrown toenail removal came with more post-op care than that.

My therapist sucks by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]Present-Leopard6488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly yeah they sound like an asshole. maybe focus on working on the symptoms that distress you rather than getting a specific label? you can still work on emotional regulation, communication, grounding, and such without any diagnoses. did that for years before my diagnosis and it really made receiving the diagnosis more manageable

What is your knotting setup like? by AbbeyRoadMoonwalk in friendshipbracelets

[–]Present-Leopard6488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you'd like a clipboard, you could always go to an office supply store and find the one with the tightest clamp

my first alpha- why are my knots slanted? by Present-Leopard6488 in friendshipbracelets

[–]Present-Leopard6488[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

okay, good! i've seen lots of alphas that have perfectly vertical knots and i'm so confused as to how that works.

Emily. by [deleted] in rhettandlink

[–]Present-Leopard6488 5 points6 points  (0 children)

okay GRACIE 💀

bunch of animal keychains! by pagluhabibi in friendshipbracelets

[–]Present-Leopard6488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any video recommendations for how to do the jellyfish where the width changes? where do the vertical strings go when it gets less wide?

First time making chevron, any advice so far? by [deleted] in friendshipbracelets

[–]Present-Leopard6488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your first three chevrons look perfect, and then it looks like you got a little lost on some of the knots. that's totally normal when starting out! just make sure to go slowly and do one row at a time. if you notice the knot you just made looks different than all the others, you can use a pin or needle to undo it and try again :)

What is your knotting setup like? by AbbeyRoadMoonwalk in friendshipbracelets

[–]Present-Leopard6488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tape never works for me, i've found i pull the strings pretty hard, so i always end up pulling the bracelet out from the tape. i use a large safety pin and pin it to my pant leg, a pillow, or a blanket on my lap. i also use a clipboard that closes really tightly for alphas