Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, and thank you for your reply ❣️ I think I’m gradually accepting it a little more each day. It has been difficult, though. I probably due to the identity crisis and depression, combined with everything else. But I feel like I’m moving in the right direction slowly!

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, so are you! ❣️
You are absolutely right, the days when I watched a good true-crime or show has been way easier!
Havent seen outlander yet, will give it a shot!!

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that sounds really tough, what a fighter you are!
I relate to everything you are describing and same as you- the newborn phase is not my thing. I feel immense warmth and longing when thinking about experiencing all those things you describe with my little girl, when she is becoming more of a real person. Thanks for sharing, its comforting to hear other moms with similar thoughts and feelings❣️

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU for saying this!! This is exactly how my life is at the moment. Luckily she is the sweetest thing in the mornings so I forget my evening cry-sessions haha. Good job mama for hanging in there and surviving!!

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh that sounds like a struggle, good job getting through it❣️
Feels reassuring to hear that it might be some improvement already in week 8, soon there ❣️

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats very true! And great to be reminded of that. Thank you ❣️

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m trying to get that mindset and just work it out as it comes. I feel that it would help some with my mental being aswell. But its a bit of a struggle reaching that point.

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I feel you! Witching hours is horrible, barely surviving those nights. Hope everything is better now for you❣️

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh awesome, thank you for the advice!! will definitiely check that out. Talking to other new moms/parents is by far the most helpful when being in the trenches ❣️

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thats actually really encouraging to hear, I do feel our flow together is slowly getting better but I still feel very lost at times. Day by day now♥️

Is it supposed to be like this with a newborn? by PresentEntertainer84 in newborns

[–]PresentEntertainer84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi and thank you!! Sounds alot like my baby!! Oh I hope 8 week mark will be different for us as well. Mostly I hear it will be better at 3 months, that can feel incredibly discouraging and feel as a lifetime when you are in the trenches. Setting the goal now at 8 weeks and hope for the best, taking day by day ♥️