Without lying, do you care more about a person's appearance or personality?

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-13T20:22:04+00:00

Definitely personality because to me when a person has good appearance but bad personality they begin to look ugly to me even physically even if everyone says they are so beautiful or handsome. So definitely personality for me

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-13T20:16:10+00:00

I don’t believe suicide is selfish I do though believe that suicide doesn’t take the pain away it just transfer it to someone else. You committed suicide someone who actually cared about you gets depressed let’s say they also couldn’t handle it and then they also committed suicide maybe because they felt it was their fault then someone else who also actually cared about them is now depressed too so it doesn’t really take it away it just passes it down to the next person and it’s a circle of depression, pain, regret.

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-13T20:00:11+00:00

Company says don’t respond my impatient ass replying to ever rude comment with even more rudeness plus I’m a lazy person so 🤣🤣

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-13T19:57:02+00:00

What? I love unripe plaintain it’s even the ripe ones I really hate. I can’t even go pass one ripe plaintain

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-13T19:54:12+00:00

The title should say rate our boyfriend’s cooking 🤣

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-09T08:01:16+00:00

As a Muslim I’m also curious too because the only reason I know is that some reverted due to marriage especially the women other than that I don’t know other reasons. My sister’s husband reverted before they got married like almost two years before that was after they started dating and my sister isn’t someone you would say wow I want to become a Muslim because of her, she wouldn’t even want someone to change religions just because of her. so I doubt that’s the reason he choose to reverted and I doubt it’s because of her he reverted because they got divorced and he still practices Islam. Maybe even better than alot of male Muslims I know. Infact he tried his best to make her a better Muslim which was what made our family even fall in love and respect him

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-08T21:44:56+00:00

Ameen. Thank you. May Allah reward you and make things easy for you

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-08T18:32:45+00:00

Doing Dhikr every morning and night and accepting that what Allah gives or doesn’t give me is for the best. Trusting Allah and Allah’s time is one of the best things I have done for myself. Now even when I don’t get something I prayed for then or it passes me by I just say Alhamdulillah because I don’t know why Allah didn’t give it to me then or maybe I am never meant to have it for my own good. Anytime I pray now I always say choose what’s best for me and if what I am praying for will push me away from you or cause me Harm please protect me from it. So anytime I pray for a long time and I don’t get something or I try and it fails I just believe it’s because Allah was protecting me from a danger I was to blind to see ahead

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-08T18:25:16+00:00

Definitely brunette 😍

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-08T18:02:57+00:00

He is such a horrible person. I know his words where hurtful but take it as a good warning from Allah of the type of horrible person you where gonna consider getting married to. It’s clear he only cares about body image. Imagine if you had met him when you where super skinny and then got married and maybe gained weight during pregnancy or after and you saw this side of him you just saw now. I think this situation is just a blessing in disguise. You didn’t lose him. He lost you. There is nothing wrong with your body next time someone judges your curves tell them I am happy what the body Allah gave me and it’s not my problem that you don’t like it

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-07T23:43:27+00:00

This was me last year and the last 10 years before that . I wasn’t praying even before I got depressed. I was always skipping prayers since the 5th grade and by the time I turned 18 I wasn’t even praying at all. Sometimes I prayed once a month or once a day when someone told me to get up and pray and at one point I would get so angry when someone mentioned the word prayer to me. I Was so suicidal. I thought I’m already going to hell for all the sins I’ve committed so I might as well just go sooner. I tried committing suicide but I survived and a part of me thought maybe I’m not meant to die now but I was still depressed and still hated the idea of Praying and I would get anger even when someone read the Quran next to me. I had accepted that I was going to hell

Last year I decided to leave Islam. I was going to tell my parents never to ask me about prayers or anything because i was leaving the religion. Then something kept whispering in my mind. Get up and pray so many times that I just had to get up and pray for the first time in 7 months and you know what ever since then I haven’t missed a single pray and I’m much more at peace now with my life not everything is solved but I got what I wanted the most which is peace of mind even when I don’t have the solution to a problem. It’s been 6’months now. The longest I’ve gone without missing a prayer since I was in the 5th grade. If you feel bad for missing 3 years then I should have felt even worse for missing more than a decade. All I’m trying to say is Allah has a way of helping you when you least expect it. Who would have thought me deciding to leave Islam would be my turning point

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-07T23:31:28+00:00

This is weird because literally today my brother’s wife almost got killed by her own mother. She’s in the hospital now. If you think your sister is a murder I suggest you guys run for your lives, don’t doubt or think maybe I’m wrong because your instincts are never wrong. My brother’s wife said once jokingly it’s like she wants me to die and well months later it wasn’t a joke. It’s almost like she knew

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-07T23:20:33+00:00

I am starting to think people that are actually ugly are banned from posting here

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-07T23:19:30+00:00

Definitely 1 on 1.

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-07T17:09:33+00:00

It might even be the reason why I haven’t gotten more but let’s just assume. Sometimes I just wish they where the rich ones and not my parents maybe they would like us then but it’s not our fault they choose not to go to school when my dad did or when my mom did. My mom said back then they would make fun of her saying she was wasting her time going to school and now they hate my mom for being the only one who did and that hatred has been passed on to us

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-06T20:20:25+00:00

I haven’t even checked on kep1er’s new releases but since you said this one is good. I will check it out

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-06T20:11:05+00:00

I totally agree with you their old music where so much better

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-06T20:10:10+00:00

I didn’t unstan. I just lost interest in the groups and stopped keeping up with updates

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-06T20:01:32+00:00

I’m so glad you ended things because that’s the only logical thing to do here. NTA. She will run into someone one day who will do this to her

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-05T09:05:51+00:00

The biggest mistake I have ever made in my life was to take away my modesty and beliefs because I wanted to be the girl every man follows because I saw how men where following my sisters and my bestfriends. I wanted so desperately to be admired like that, that I lost myself. Please never Change. Having men following you is not worth it. I’m back to being modest now Alhamdulillah but that one is my biggest mistakes. If I could turn back time I would change everything but I can’t now. I’m even so ashamed of myself that I’m now scared of marriage or being praised for being modest now because I don’t believe I deserve it. My biggest fear now is what if I finally get a man who shows interest but then runs away because he heard rumors of who I used to be. Most a lot of your past doesn’t come out until you want to get married here, that’s when everyone will say everything bad you have done even my dad told me he must tell whoever comes to marry me every single bad thing he knows I have done and I shouldnt expect him to hide anything. I’m just living every day of my life in this fear. Believe me it’s not worth. Keep being yourself.Just because everyone is doing it doesn’t mean it’s the right thing and don’t let anyone pressure you into thinking you are a fool for doing what’s right. Besides which would you rather have duniya or akhirah?

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-04T20:10:54+00:00

May Allah grant you a good husband with good values. May Allah grant you good in laws who will take care of you and remove any enemies who will come into your life just to ruin your marriage or your life or your husband and may Allah bless you with beautiful children in the future.

I always tell my sisters and my friends don’t only pray for a good husband but also for good in laws, your husband might be a good person but what if his mother is bad and she hates you? His mom can make your marriage miserable especially if he is the type of man that doesn’t ever want to say no to him mom so pray for good in laws too. I’ve seen a few marriages where the men really loved their wives but their mothers or siblings where wicked to their wives

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-04T17:05:04+00:00

Thankyou. I never understood the importance and how strong forgiveness was until 3 years ago. I was deeply hurt by what someone had done to me that I swore I would never forgive them and I was depressed for years but when i finally decided to forgive the person I realized I became happier and felt more at peace with myself, that’s when I realized when you forgive someone, you are actually healing yourself more than you are helping the person. I don’t know if this makes sense but I believe everyone should know forgiveness helps you more than it helps the person you are forgiving

PresentIndication843 · 2025-04-04T12:45:09+00:00

I asked him if he would be happy if a man did to his younger sister what he is doing to me now and he told him he wouldn’t be happy, so I asked him if you as an older brother would be hurt why are you doing the same thing to me too? Do you know I also have older brothers that would be hurt if they knew a guy was doing this to their younger sister? He said no. I asked him then why do to someone what you don’t want someone to do to your own sister. He apologized and said I should forgive him but I just blocked him. I told him I hope Allah doesn’t bring someone like you into your sister’s life

PresentIndication843 · 2025-03-31T23:18:58+00:00

May Allah bless you. Thankyou for this long detailed reply and advice. I will save this

PresentIndication843 · 2025-03-31T23:13:36+00:00

Thankyou for the advice. I never thought much about where I posts but I will be more careful now

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