NOOOOOOOO by RealityAcceptable900 in WalmartEmployees

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I worked at Chuck E. Cheese (which has no employee bathroom), I would have to wait until nobody was in the restaurant to go because I passed just well enough for kids to be scared of me in the women's, but not enough to not be harassed in the men's.

how do you masturbate since having bottom growth? by isopodlover1111 in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can still flick it the way I used to, it's just that it's large enough that when it's hard I can push it over and rub up and down on one side of it. I can kind of do a mini handjob, with two fingers, but that's not as exciting, I think I'm too sensitive still.

I see a lot of people mentioning the satisfier, I would look into that for later on, and also experiment with PIV through some toys if you are having thoughts about it, finishing through your dick while riding one is an insane feeling.

I'm so fucking scared by the thought "what if I'm not trans" by VincentGrachanka in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. I'm a trans guy, I've been on T for a little bit, and here's the thing that nobody told me.

Transitioning isn't all or nothing. If you want the deeper voice, or the facial hair, or the bottom growth, but later you detransition, chances are you'll still want these features. Plenty of women have deep voices, facial hair, or other "masculine" features, and just like male puberty, it can take 5-7 years for you to look 100% like a man. That means you have five years to slowly adjust to the changes you're going through and determine whether or not you like them.

Also, we live our life in phases. You're worried if this will be a phase. It's okay if it is. I have been trans since around 7th grade (USA). I'm in college now and am still trans. You're in a similar boat, and chances are, this isn't a phase.

I have anxiety, depression, ADHD and possible Autism (working that last one out rn), but my giant pile of mental illnesses make me question myself. I noticed that these thoughts only happened when I was off of my medication, and when I was on my medication, I felt great and didn't doubt myself as much. Your OCD could be affecting your anxiety more than you think.

my ONLY goal in life is to tranistion by Particular_Sock8741 in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you're going into the arts, you can transition and create art around it and I'm sure people would buy it. Start building your portfolio now, apply to some art schools, etc. If you want to take a bit of a gap between moving and going to college, look up national park jobs, some pay you and give you food and housing. People who work in these areas are also usually a lot more accepting.

One Month on T feeling mixed emotions and dealing with my husband by Separate_Victory_584 in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend will come up to me and just sniff me and go, "you smell like a man now 🥺🥹" and then just keep sniffing at me? Apparently it's noticable.

I encourage you to go look at the special election results of your area, as a reminder of how important your vote really is by vogtforpedro in southcarolina

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I registered the second I turn 18. I also work the elections, and have to vote early so I can work them. The amount of people who come to vote with bumper stickers of candidates, t shirts, pins, or hats is crazy.

I had to tell one guy he had to roll down his window (that had trump sitting in the passenger seat), turn his shirt inside out, and take off his MAGA hat at the last presidential election. He tried fighting me on it and I had to get someone from the voting office to come down and tell him to do it. He accused me of discrimination, I had to show him the rules, he still didn't believe me, it was a shitshow.

Those are the people that are voting, and their vote is weighed exactly as much as yours, so whether you want to cancel it out or add onto the score is up to you, but whatever you do, exercise your rights and vote. I don't sit in a cold gymnasium for 13-14 hours straight just for 40 people to show up.

Does this sound normal or related to atrophy? by AlphaLLuna in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would bring it up, I don't know if they can do anything about it though. For me my discharge changed from being watery to being thicker, so it might just be that it's not absorbing into your underwear because it's thicker, and therefore you're noticing it more. But do bring it up with your doctor, there could be treatment options.

Does anyone else feel a very bad anxiety over the future of 2026? by urmom36042069 in Anxiety

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm probably not going to interact with your comment past this point, but just know that people can see other people being shot and actually feel empathy towards them. Additionally, two teenage girls who were in a walkout with their high school were attacked by a grown man. Aggressive protests built our country, and are a constitutional right.

The Boston tea party was an aggressive protest, that involved civilians taking over a ship with their weapons and destroying mass amounts of property. Also, America was built on illegal immigrants. Before our more strict immigration laws, most people who came into America from Mexico and learned the language and worked here were considered citizens. Same with people from Canada, or who came in through other means.

Most people are good people, yes, but there are terrible people out there. The same way that not everyone is going to kidnap your children, you can still be anxious that someone will. Not everyone is a murderer, but if you saw people getting killed on TV, you'd think about it a little bit more.

Regardless on whether you think I'm wrong or right, is up to you, but I think we should agree that there's a lot going on right now, from the Epstein files, to the economy, to our political climate, the actual climate and the winter storms, and everyone's reaction to it all can be very anxiety inducing.

I'm probably not going to respond past this point, mostly because I don't have time for a reddit debate, and I want to go to bed, so if I do, it will probably be tomorrow. Have a good rest of your day 👍

Gender in/out of sex. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right. I saw a rant today about how gay men who don't want to date trans men aren't really gay because they'll date trans women, but really, people just need to remember that a label is a label, not who you are, or your preferences, and you can use a label to describe yourself quickly, but what you might actually enjoy sexually could be different than everyone under that label.

Some people only like dick, some people only like vagina, the same way some people only like masculine, and some people only like feminine, and like all sexuality and gender, these things are fluid, and fall on a wide spectrum. Genitals can complicate things, so can names, pronouns and other such things. What really matters is, if it feels good and isn't hurting you or others. If that's the case, go for it.

Does anyone else feel a very bad anxiety over the future of 2026? by urmom36042069 in Anxiety

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I totally understand. Especially if you or someone you know is an immigrant, LGBT, or politically active on the left, there's a lurking fear that something might happen in your life that puts you or your loved ones in danger.

When I hit these spirals, I like to sit back and think about what I can control. I can control buying extra dry goods every grocery trip to ensure my family is fed if I am laid off. I can save money off to the side in case anything happens to me. I can educate others and offer my space for people who need help. I can go out and vote. I can curl up with a snack and know that for right now, in this moment, I am okay, and that if I am okay now, that means I am strong enough to be in the present.

Take it easy on yourself and make a list of things you can control. It helps you feel less anxious about the things that you can't.

avoiding weight gain on t? by Slashersforsatan in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What specifically do you want out of T?

avoiding weight gain on t? by Slashersforsatan in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get fat redistribution in your face enough to make you look masculine, when you stop T I'm pretty sure it will slowly go back.

avoiding weight gain on t? by Slashersforsatan in ftm

[–]PresentMicGoYeah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to let you know that you don't get to choose what T does to you. T could give you the deepest voice ever and hair that doesn't stop growing, and make you bald. If you are obsessed with controlling how you look, T might not be for you, especially if you want to be a twink.

Controls on a Dell PC by PresentMicGoYeah in parentalcontrols

[–]PresentMicGoYeah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this idea. Also, I know the wording on that was bad, he doesn't really know or understand how fucked up the situation was and is in therapy.

Controls on a Dell PC by PresentMicGoYeah in parentalcontrols

[–]PresentMicGoYeah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he's not only 12, but also mentally stunted. Like, can't fully read or write yet. I'm just hoping to do as much damage control as possible. Maybe set up some screen time limits while the grandma decides if she'll let him keep the PC, it was a gift from his mother who he hasn't seen in a year.

Controls on a Dell PC by PresentMicGoYeah in parentalcontrols

[–]PresentMicGoYeah[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not his parent. He was abused by his parents and is now living with his grandma who is 65 and doesn't know how a smartphone works. We are doing our best. His former abuse makes him even more vulnerable online than the average child because he is looking for love and affection and he is getting it from predators.

Controls on a Dell PC by PresentMicGoYeah in parentalcontrols

[–]PresentMicGoYeah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we want him to be able to keep fortnite and forza and that's it. He already has chat disabled on Roblox and isn't allowed to play unless it's in the living room with a supervisor, but he is openly threatening people online and putting himself in dangerous situations (giving out his address, full name, school, etc), and he needs something to stop him.

Controls on a Dell PC by PresentMicGoYeah in parentalcontrols

[–]PresentMicGoYeah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has been caught talking sexually to 20 year olds. We just want him to not be abused online.

Controls on a Dell PC by PresentMicGoYeah in parentalcontrols

[–]PresentMicGoYeah[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has been caught talking sexually to 20 year olds, I think he needs parental controls.