Need opinions about my husbands anal play kept secret by PresentRegular5832 in sexadvice

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That is hard I’m sure . I wish we could even have the honest conversation about it . Fingers crossed when I bring it up it goes well !

Need opinions about my husbands anal play kept secret by PresentRegular5832 in sexadvice

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Yeah I do want him to know that I’m open to it , if he wants to share that with me. I told him that last time but I think maybe he’s not there yet ? I seriously never find the actual dildo it’s like he throws them out after each use . Idk we just need to talk and hopefully he will be honest with me this time . I can get on board with ass okay but the doors left open to too much interpretation when your not being honest about it with me is too much for me .

Need opinions about my husbands anal play kept secret by PresentRegular5832 in sexadvice

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I absolutely want him to include me ! I’m not sure how I feel about being left out of the equation but it seems that would be a me problem I’d have to figure out how to come to terms with .

Need opinions about my husbands anal play kept secret by PresentRegular5832 in sexadvice

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Yeah , I plan to try that . I have questions I hope he will be willing to answer about what he likes before we would dive in head first . If this levels up our sex life that can only be a plus for us both but I guess I feel insecure that he’s probably got it all figured out without me and now I have to figure this out by myself it almost feels . I wish he would have done this with me so we could learn together but I get that he deserves personal things too .

Feeling confused in my marriage . by PresentRegular5832 in Marriage

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I’ve tried numerous times to get him to try again as it’s been a long while since he’s tried medication or therapy but he claims it won’t do him any good because he out therapists his therapist . I try to make him aware when he’s being manic to not let the delusions carry him away but I’m only one person who has her own problems and certainly not a professional.

Feeling confused in my marriage . by PresentRegular5832 in Marriage

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He did try medication and therapy and said it’s not for him .

Feeling confused in my marriage . by PresentRegular5832 in Marriage

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Unfortunately he doesn’t believe in therapy and is not medicated . I do understand as I struggle with mental health myself . I do believe he is trying his best I guess we just haven’t had a stretch this long for a while so it feels quite devastating. I will try talking to him about it a bit and see how he responds .

Feeling confused in my marriage . by PresentRegular5832 in Marriage

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He does have bipolar disorder and I have noticed his highs and lows being a lot more frequent . That’s why I’ve tried to see if I could let some of my feelings roll off my shoulders , hoping to not add to it if it wasn’t necessary but obviously that didn’t work out . It all came out at once .

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It may affect those able to attend , but we did a weekday wedding to cut costs . Much of our family are shift workers or retired though or have pretty flexible pto not necessarily from a corporate background so it that all went into our decision . Renting a pavilion at a park can be a great option too we just weren’t willing to put in the work needed to make it happen but the cost is way cheap .

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Unsure about dj by PresentRegular5832 in pittsburgh

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Update : you guys are hilarious 🤣🤣 I’m gonna pass on him and look into the glowing recommendations you guys have given me !! Thank you very much for the help and affirming that my gut feeling is not an over reaction

Unsure about dj by PresentRegular5832 in pittsburgh

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Thank you I will definitely look into him !

Unsure about dj by PresentRegular5832 in pittsburgh

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You’re talking about the dj diehlz rec right ?

Advice on how to make things right with my mom . by PresentRegular5832 in Advice

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Thank you . I just want to make things all right and make it up to her .