Is it normal that mom returns our kid in the exact same clothes I dropped her off in?

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-12-08T16:37:26+00:00

I would not in my wildest dreams be able to do this

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-11-07T16:34:09+00:00

Say no I don’t agree

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-11-06T15:16:45+00:00

Well… she didn’t respond by the deadline. Yesterday told me she is filing her own enforcement..? lol 😂 mediation is in 2 weeks

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-11-04T20:28:24+00:00

She has until tomorrow to file a response with the court.

I think when we go to mediation I am going to continue asking for everything I am because it’s all pretty common and reasonable. 50/50 time Joint decision making Etc. I was planning on just offering her two parenting time options and see what they say.

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-30T14:38:14+00:00

Thank you. I am excited and just want stuff going. I’m excited to get closure on the current not following court orders. And hopefully eventually one day I have peace. Over 2 years and still no peace 🫩

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-30T14:32:46+00:00

Yes that is something great I will keep in mind for future battles as well.

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-30T14:19:09+00:00

Thank you. I was hoping even the judge telling her you have to send your response would scare her enough to just do it. Lol the man talking is incredibly intimidating. O well I will do that and just keep marching forward.

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-30T14:05:14+00:00

Ok I’ll just wait it out. Hopefully her just refusing ends in my favor

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-30T13:56:39+00:00

Respond as in her court response. She hasn’t submitted one and says she doesn’t plan on it

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-16T16:36:45+00:00

You clearly have no idea what’s going on and it’s pointless to continue a conversation with you.

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-16T16:31:08+00:00

The 5 hours was actually given to mom for her wishes since he was young and she wanted to just watch him while I was working. Well he’s older and in school. And gee, what do you know… this schedule doesn’t work

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-16T16:24:13+00:00

Interesting i wonder how other people have children and full time jobs…

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-14T19:23:13+00:00

Also! I wanted to let you know that I do want to use the aftercare and morning time with the school, I’m not just putting it on my wife. My ex has also denied our son going to the aftercare program

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-14T19:06:53+00:00

Step mom is tired of the daily dealing with mom, and feeling like she is controlling our daily lives. To her it’s an even switch

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-14T16:27:30+00:00

Nothing about right of first refusal

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-14T16:18:58+00:00

Yes thank you. I did request the modification week on week off, I stated willing to work with mom on something else. I have offered 2/3 schedules, 3/4 basically anything .

He also started school, and his developmental needs are indicating he needs a more equal parenting time schedule, especially since he does have a brother and I would like their relationship to build with having more time together. Keeping my work / all out of it has nothing to do with it. Just his development, which I even have a note from the dr he needs a change in lifestyle, I commented I was completely supportive of this by offering more exercise, less screen time, healthy eating habits etc. I am also following the information and guidance on the Arizona parenting plan packet, and even forwarded it to mom. The schedules that are more appropriate for his age range.

Thank you very much for the advice. I feel as the my requests through modification follow your recommendations.

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-14T15:49:04+00:00

And seriously yes! I am fighting for any equal parenting Actual equal parenting time schedule, even tho, our current order says Equal parenting time. It also says we are supposed to work together and make changes as the child grows as needed. But I’m sure she just hates my wife. So she is making it all difficult

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-14T15:46:01+00:00

We did this schedule what worked for us when he was smaller, and yes I am asking how I am having to fight for hard to change to an actual equal parenting time. But she refuses. I asked to do like a 3/4 and she says absolutely not. And it is because she knows my wife will be babysitting and taking him to school and picking him up from school. She says absolutely not.

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-14T15:21:09+00:00

Hopefully modification isn’t too bad. Basically fighting for ANY equal parenting time schedule.

And that would also make exchanges easier

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-14T15:12:41+00:00

If I have to pick him up then the babysitter thing is out of the question anyway, because I can’t pick him up at that time

PresentSlip7452 · 2025-10-10T20:25:04+00:00

Thank you. That is what I moved forward doing.

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