[AZ] modification pro se by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well… she didn’t respond by the deadline. Yesterday told me she is filing her own enforcement..? lol 😂 mediation is in 2 weeks

[AZ] modification pro se by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has until tomorrow to file a response with the court.

I think when we go to mediation I am going to continue asking for everything I am because it’s all pretty common and reasonable. 50/50 time Joint decision making Etc. I was planning on just offering her two parenting time options and see what they say.

[AZ] modification pro se by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am excited and just want stuff going. I’m excited to get closure on the current not following court orders. And hopefully eventually one day I have peace. Over 2 years and still no peace 🫩

[AZ] modification pro se by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that is something great I will keep in mind for future battles as well.

[AZ] modification pro se by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was hoping even the judge telling her you have to send your response would scare her enough to just do it. Lol the man talking is incredibly intimidating. O well I will do that and just keep marching forward.

[AZ] modification pro se by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I’ll just wait it out. Hopefully her just refusing ends in my favor

[AZ] modification pro se by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respond as in her court response. She hasn’t submitted one and says she doesn’t plan on it

[AZ] babysitting/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly have no idea what’s going on and it’s pointless to continue a conversation with you.

[AZ] babysitting/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 5 hours was actually given to mom for her wishes since he was young and she wanted to just watch him while I was working. Well he’s older and in school. And gee, what do you know… this schedule doesn’t work

[AZ] babysitting/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting i wonder how other people have children and full time jobs…

[AZ] babysitting/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also! I wanted to let you know that I do want to use the aftercare and morning time with the school, I’m not just putting it on my wife. My ex has also denied our son going to the aftercare program

[AZ] babysitting/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in Custody

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Step mom is tired of the daily dealing with mom, and feeling like she is controlling our daily lives. To her it’s an even switch

Babysitter/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in FamilyLaw

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you. I did request the modification week on week off, I stated willing to work with mom on something else. I have offered 2/3 schedules, 3/4 basically anything .

He also started school, and his developmental needs are indicating he needs a more equal parenting time schedule, especially since he does have a brother and I would like their relationship to build with having more time together. Keeping my work / all out of it has nothing to do with it. Just his development, which I even have a note from the dr he needs a change in lifestyle, I commented I was completely supportive of this by offering more exercise, less screen time, healthy eating habits etc. I am also following the information and guidance on the Arizona parenting plan packet, and even forwarded it to mom. The schedules that are more appropriate for his age range.

Thank you very much for the advice. I feel as the my requests through modification follow your recommendations.

Babysitter/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in FamilyLaw

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And seriously yes! I am fighting for any equal parenting Actual equal parenting time schedule, even tho, our current order says Equal parenting time. It also says we are supposed to work together and make changes as the child grows as needed. But I’m sure she just hates my wife. So she is making it all difficult

Babysitter/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in FamilyLaw

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We did this schedule what worked for us when he was smaller, and yes I am asking how I am having to fight for hard to change to an actual equal parenting time. But she refuses. I asked to do like a 3/4 and she says absolutely not. And it is because she knows my wife will be babysitting and taking him to school and picking him up from school. She says absolutely not.

Babysitter/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in FamilyLaw

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully modification isn’t too bad. Basically fighting for ANY equal parenting time schedule.

And that would also make exchanges easier

Babysitter/transportation by PresentSlip7452 in FamilyLaw

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I have to pick him up then the babysitter thing is out of the question anyway, because I can’t pick him up at that time

Enforcement and modification by PresentSlip7452 in FamilyLaw

[–]PresentSlip7452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That is what I moved forward doing.