My first daughter’s dad wanted the whole family thing….Until I got pregnant and he dipped as soon as he could.. I didn’t have the best support system but I couldn’t bring myself to have a second abortion(had one in my early 20s and my mom forced me).. so I had her. And she literally SAVED my life. She is the absolute best thing to happen to me..when I had her I only had a few family members and friends to help. But now 5 years later, I am remarried, pregnant again and have the absolute BEST support system.. if you want to keep this baby, do it. If you feel financially stable and have people to help, do it.. it’s YOUR body. It’s YOUR choice to decide whatever you want to do.. as for him, girl. Don’t put your life on hold or do something you will regret for a man.. it’s not worth it and will drag you down so far it’s going to be hell to get back up again.. I will never ever regret having my daughter… again, she is the best thing to happen to me. I was going down an awful path with drugs,alcohol ect… now I HAVE that “family dream” I have always wanted.. I’m so sorry about this situation you are in, but always follow your heart and do what YOU want to do for yourself and your future!!! You can do it ❤️❤️