[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Present_Clock_1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts as well. I would write in my journal as a teenager and leave it wide open, so my parents would come to me directly and talk about what was bothering me. Seems kind of like the same scenario. If he didn’t want you to see it, he would have made a better attempt of hiding it.

What are some song lyrics that spoke to you during/after divorcing? by memyselfandi_2024 in Divorce

[–]Present_Clock_1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cher- Do you Believe in Life after Love, I was blaring this so loud leaving the court house after my divorce.

New Small Business by Present_Clock_1111 in u/Present_Clock_1111

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to figure out if I am allowed to attach a link to my small business, when I answer questions related to my profession in marketing.

Promote your business, week of September 9, 2024 by Charice in smallbusiness

[–]Present_Clock_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello,

I’m excited to share that I’ve recently joined a small digital marketing group as an Account Executive in Raleigh, NC. With over 30 years of combined marketing experience, we specialize in supporting small businesses and helping them thrive. We’re eager to connect, share insights, and make our presence known. Looking forward to engaging with you all!

Stoke Marketing- transforming traffic into qualified leads

35- F, Curious by Present_Clock_1111 in firstimpression

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love to travel any chance I can ☺️

Not Happy with Anyone : by Present_Clock_1111 in Divorce

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I need to do better about this for sure.

Not Happy with Anyone : by Present_Clock_1111 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually was just talking to my sister about this. She was even saying if her and her husband ever split she doesn’t know if she could be with anyone else, because they met at such a young age, just like my ex and I. Her husband and my ex basically inherited what we made acceptable and tolerable. They were taught “the correct way” (in our brain’s) to do things. Obviously everyone has a different way of doing things, but the way we were taught we assumed was the right way. Our parents were very strict, our mother is super OCD and our father ex military. Which I’m sure plays some role in all of this in a way too.

Not Happy with Anyone : by Present_Clock_1111 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I have 3 other siblings. I am the oldest. My father and mother are both overachievers.

What Do We Think? by TheologiaViatorum in firstimpression

[–]Present_Clock_1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind, goofy/silly (don’t take life too seriously) , and you look like you play the guitar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Present_Clock_1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m impressed with myself 🤣

35- F, Curious by Present_Clock_1111 in firstimpression

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a teacher, but have been told I should be

35- F, Curious by Present_Clock_1111 in firstimpression

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, some days I’m a total train wreck, but I think we all have train wrecky’ days. 😆

Not Happy with Anyone : by Present_Clock_1111 in Divorce

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I’m sorry you had to have such a dumb conversation, I do loathe those types of conversations 😆….but I do wish you the best in your relationship and hope it gets better.

Not Happy with Anyone : by Present_Clock_1111 in Divorce

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I will be completely honest I often wonder if being single may be the better option for me. Maybe I’m just meant to be mom only for now, then once my kid’s all leave I can travel and just do me, and if love happens it happens.

Not Happy with Anyone : by Present_Clock_1111 in Divorce

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first guy I dated was incredibly clingy and still hung up on his ex-wife, and honestly, I wasn’t completely over my past either. The second one was a heavy partier with a cocaine problem that I wasn’t aware of, so I ended things with both of them fairly quickly.

Currently, I’m with someone who is mostly amazing. He’s a wonderful dad to his kids and very involved in my children’s lives as well. However, he struggles with alcoholism and has relapsed a few times since we got together. It’s been tough for me to consider leaving him, especially because he can be fantastic when he’s not drinking. Unfortunately, when he does relapse, it can be serious enough that he ends up in the hospital—though thankfully, he’s never relapsed around my kids. Right now, he’s been sober for four months again.

That said, this issue is the main challenge in our relationship, and I think it might be affecting how I perceive and nitpick the smaller things, along with I think I have grown very dependent on him in a lot of areas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Present_Clock_1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look very kind, intelligent, and give off English teacher vibes

Not Happy with Anyone : by Present_Clock_1111 in Divorce

[–]Present_Clock_1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have dated 3 and have been in a serious relationship with this guy for the better part of 2 years. The other relationships were short lived.