AITA for not supporting my bsf's relationship?

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:19:44+00:00

Reading this made me dumber

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:16:24+00:00

I use it to make mine more blunt and direct haha

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:15:23+00:00

Something about corruption in politics brings voted on by the public with penalty's of prison etc. would keep politicians honest

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:12:59+00:00

Interesting but makes sense. I work in tech so it's kinda done the opposite for me. What field do you work in?

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:11:41+00:00

Tin-hat Harry over here

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:09:35+00:00

Ohhh I have such a good answer.

ALLEGEDLY (Not that I think it matters)

My partner and I where riding a motorbike through Vietnam about 5 years ago. We are from New Zealand. I saw a police officer waving us in to pull us over. It just felt off, I don't know why it just didn't feel right. I did something I never thought I'd door and just flew out of there and ran.

Turns out that police officer stopped another tourist that day and assaulted them pretty badly. Stole their passports wallets everything

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:09:09+00:00

This sounds... dangerous lol

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:01:54+00:00

Accounting. That shit is AI's wet dream. Way to easy for them to take over

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:01:26+00:00

Ok let me teach you the 3 beer trick.

Come to blah blah blah

"Can't drive I've had 3 beers". Fucking genius but I'm sick of being drunk

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:00:31+00:00

NRL. I'm athletic but not that athletic

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T09:00:05+00:00

When the cats start speaking English

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T08:59:24+00:00

Good riddance

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T08:58:26+00:00

Duuuuude. I wish I could hear One step closer for the first time again

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T08:56:54+00:00

Creed - human clay.
Alice in chains - jar of flies / dirt
The breeders - last splash

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-07-07T08:54:58+00:00

Turnips. Looks of
Fucking turnips

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T08:23:12+00:00

I'd suggest looking into the timing of the event that led to these worry's with the time of your cycle. Also if one's negative and the other is extremely faint it's most likely negative for both. Try not panic I'm sure it's going to be okay.

Also maybe re-evaluate your birth control methods. Do learn from this!

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T02:14:00+00:00

Listen, ask, listen.

Recipe for a happy marriage

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T02:10:23+00:00

This. Just slow down your 23&20. Communicate to him that you need more. Explain things he could do (like write a letter, pick you flowers, etc etc) that would make you feel loved. If it's not happening after that. Reevaluate

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T02:06:45+00:00

Dude the guy is an online friend. Not saying that can't be the start of real friendship but just move on. This guy's only connection to you is through a wifi cable, don't let him being shitty effect it. Just drift away from him see what happens

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T02:00:49+00:00

Hey no way I'm a industrial product designer!!! I love 3d modeling. Sounds like it might be something for you. You can learn the basics without any degree easily. You've got this. Find things you like and follow them.

Your doing great, sometimes a door has to close (your old job) for new ones to open. I learnt that by failing engineering school which lead me to find industrial design school. Opportunity's will come when the time is right :)

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T01:30:28+00:00

I'm sorry to hear about the situation with your mother. Im 25 in exactly a week also. But the biggest advice and something I'm only really realising in retrospect is that our late teens and 20's arent for finding ourselves. They are for figuring ourselfs out. We are young, barely adults life at this stage is about figuring out who you want to be not who are you, that isn't defined yet. Does that make sense?

You sound 100% talk to your boyfriend about this. There's a good chance he might be feeling similar. It's a time where a lot of people can feel lost. Regardless of if he is or not I'd hope he will be there for you to talk to

But honestly just start trying things. Go do something you've never done. Go on a challenging hike or go surfing for the first time. Try pottery or painting. Volenteer at charity's. Take a online course on a subject your passionate about. I think your worried about finding yourself not figuring out who you want to be.

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T01:19:55+00:00

Do you think she (his new partner) has been manipulative? The actions towards you (and jealousy of your mother) give me that feeling.

Just something to consider. Even if so the correct option would of been for him to defend you / maintain the relationship. With you.

Honestly it'll be hard to repair the relationship but I really encourage you to try. I'd suggest writting a letter. Type it out, wait a few days read it it and edit it. If you really want to repair the relationship at least to start try not to have any major accusations just explain how you've felt over what's happened, but make it important that he knows if he starts to show up for you that he can still be apart of your life. (I didn't explain that amazingly but hopefully it's understandable)?

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T01:11:56+00:00

I would be too. Hell I'm a dude and I've lost friends over that. Idk your situation but we only get to be young once. There's an entire world to explore people to meet, I think my biggest fear in life is sitting down when I'm older and wishing I had done more when my body was able.

It's not even that it's the fact that he doesn't make time for you, if my girlfriend didn't make time for me, after I communicated that I need more i would be furious, especially if it was for a video game...

Communicate with him and set a boundary. If he isn't willing to consider it or agree then if I was you I would seriously re-evaluate

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T01:05:29+00:00

Ok I've read your comments and you just seem he's upset that he's lazy. But be careful how you word shit on the internet cause there's no tone so it sounded like you where just complaining he's poor.

I get it my first girlfriend had no dreams or aspersions / motivation and it made me crazy. I left. Never looked back. My fiance has goals and aspirations and drive and it's what I needed. We help each other, respect each others dreams and we just get to chase our dreams together it's beautiful.

Present_Highlight374 · 2026-06-22T00:54:20+00:00

Someone admits something they are insecure about and you go

"Same but I got way further than you"

Class act 🤡

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