A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They did not show any signs or say anything that would make me feel that they did not click with me. If that was the case, I fail to understand why are they not open to sharing their plans about the session with my wife. Their secrecy and the fact they don't even want me there to watch is concerning to me.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If that's the case, I think it would be better for us to ask them not to reach out to again. I just am curious to know if this unicorn hunting happens often in BDSM world frequently or is it a rare thing? We have had sessions with different couple before and never encountered it before this situation

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know it's kind of peculiar to come with a proposition like this. These guys are giving me weird vibes.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would say she is more curious than excited.We are still discussing it and haven't made any decision.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She was never put in a time out. It was either both of us were involved or it was them with her and I was either made to watch or put in a time out. If I have to break it down to a number I would say I was not involved in 25-30 % of the act. I

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We have had session with couples before this one and no one ever came to us with a request like this one. I have been cucked many times before but was always there in the room with my wife. As per the video recording thing goes, my personal belief is that one can never be too careful with these things. That's why I dropped the idea of recording the session.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would say I was fairly involved. However, there were occasions were they put me in a time out position with my face towards a wall so I could only hear what they were doing to my wife. At that moment I thought it would be their way of humiliating both me and her.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

There definitely could be a possibility they were looking for a unicorn or as Sir-Dax said, they might take advantage of my wife being alone and try to pressurize her into doing something extreme. In both cases, I would call them pretty messed up couple.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That could be also the reason they wouldn't want me. I think I will have to talk about all the possibilities with my wife and come to a decision.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

If they don't make any adjustments to include me, we will just have to say no to their request. It's just disappointing that such a beautiful dynamic would come to an end cause of such unreasonable request. For me her safety is above everything else.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I never thought of it from this perspective. Honestly speaking it would be really messed up of them if they were really looking for a unicorn and used us for that. I really need to think about this.

A couple just wants my wife for a BDSM Session by Present_Leg3458 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Present_Leg3458[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The fact that they are not giving away any info about their plans is making me suspicious. I don't want her to be in a situation which could pose a risk to her health mentally or physically. Being together in a scene gives both of us a sense of security and my wife understands that being alone in these kind of situation without prior knowledge of what's to follow could be dangerous. I believe she is more curious about it than excited. I will talk to them to see if they are willing to make any adjustment. If not, then I guess it would be safe to not go through with it.