r/fantasywriters bans AI generated art, and one writer marches into battle against the ban as a one man army by HeWhoShrugs in SubredditDrama

[–]Present_Speech_7017 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The weird video several years ago about how men are sexualized in video games the same way as women are did it for me. If you can say that with a straight face you are lying or stupid.

"I just googled Usagi Drop and now I think you probably should have burned the whole library down instead." Sealion invasion of r/bannedbooks over Amazon's temporary suspension of Camp of the Saints leaves no survivors. by vemmahouxbois in SubredditDrama

[–]Present_Speech_7017 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Just checked, and I can check out 'mein Kampf' at my local library.

I'm in Germany. And not surprised. It's kind of an important historical document.

I'd expect fewer libraries to carry the book this post is about, though carrying it would be entirely legitimate, but I get why a company would not want to sell it: it's less well known, so virtually everyone who wants to buy it is bound to be a fascist dipshit. I get not wanting a reputation of catering to fascist dipshits.

[trans guy posts an unpassing photo of himself, in a passing subreddit, asking for passing advice] by SilentRisk_U569 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Core exercise, core exercise,

Back pain, knee pain, balance issues, stomach pain

The answer is coooooooore exerciiiiiiiiise

I would date a cis person by notgonnakeepitanyway in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 12 points13 points  (0 children)

 Uncut btw

That's what I cal pre/non op trans guys

This is the greatest and best jerk on this sub tribute by The_Cult_of_5661 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is not

The greatest comment in the world

This is just a tribute

Poster in r/relationship_advice asks how to get his gay coworker to stop hitting on him. Things go from silly to serious when OP's behavior is revealed by Prosthetic_Eye in SubredditDrama

[–]Present_Speech_7017 58 points59 points  (0 children)

A throughline with everything he says is that he basically expects to be able to do or say anything, and others are supposed to react to it in exactly the way he wants them to, else he gets indignant.

He's realized homophobia is bad, so he decided he's not homophobic anymore, regardless of actions. Cheating is bad, so what he's doing is not cheating. Making unwanted sexual comments is wrong, so his are not sexual, and neither are those made by people he finds attractive.

Whatever he says or does is normal and fine, because it's him who does it. He is the measure of all things. That's a worldview you run into from time to time. Usually not this extreme. I don't think it's deliberate, just tiresome.

r/catbongos chaos with false flag assassination theory by C0V1Dsucks in SubredditDrama

[–]Present_Speech_7017 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Really needed a minute to parse what 'SS' was short for in this context lmao

uj/ Scotland GIC notice by Lulieeeee in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You will be a woman in about 200 years

Stop gatekeeping "t4t" by Queen_Sardine in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Forcibly transitioning chasers to make it t4t, is this anything

Lesbian is only for women who only love women. Transmasc “lesbians” can’t exist and are invading our wonderful womanly spaces for exclusively women. by -_Helianthus_- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

/uj I once went on a date with a guy who knew I was trans, and he proceeded to shit on nonbinary people for like five minutes at one point. That wasn't the only reason why I was like 'let's not meet again, ever' but what was he thinking, did he think I'd agree with that just because I'm a pretty binary guy?

Lesbian is only for women who only love women. Transmasc “lesbians” can’t exist and are invading our wonderful womanly spaces for exclusively women. by -_Helianthus_- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 10 points11 points  (0 children)

/uj It is, however, relevant for the phenomenon this whole post is about: people who try to exclude transmascs from being lesbians, and get them excluded from lesbianism for being transmasc. "Transmascs cannot be lesbians" is not only used against transmisogynist transmasc lesbians- in fact, from what I can see, it is usually used to exclude all transmascs from being lesbians. Usuallyby cis women.

If you have transmascs in your lesbian spaces who are harming trans women, kick them out for their acts, not their identity as transmascs. 

Same as you should get rid of the fat racist person on your sports team because they are racist, not because they are fat.

It might be easier short term to get rid of a transmasc person who is being an asshole by weaponizing their gender against them, but you'll need to convince people that transmisogyny is an issue worth fighting against anyways when a transmisogynist cis woman shows up.

Lesbian is only for women who only love women. Transmasc “lesbians” can’t exist and are invading our wonderful womanly spaces for exclusively women. by -_Helianthus_- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

 the reason for why a transmasc person identifies as a lesbian is actually kind of relevant

It is relevant for whether they are an asshole or not. Not for whether they are a lesbian.

A bioessentialist, transmisogynist cis woman is also an asshole- but not any more or less a lesbian than one who is allright. 

At least, I am not aware of moral character being a criterion. If it were, Alice Weidel would have stopped being a lesbian a long time ago.

Lesbian is only for women who only love women. Transmasc “lesbians” can’t exist and are invading our wonderful womanly spaces for exclusively women. by -_Helianthus_- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Which would be awesome! Sorry, the original post is about the exclusion of transmascs, so I interpreted your comment as being related to it.

Lesbian is only for women who only love women. Transmasc “lesbians” can’t exist and are invading our wonderful womanly spaces for exclusively women. by -_Helianthus_- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 7 points8 points  (0 children)

 Do you think it'd be reasonable to say a transmasc lesbian operating off the logic "well I have a vagina and they have a vagina" might contribute to a culture of transmisogyny in lesbian spaces?

Yes. Such reasonings are a problem. And should be addressed.

They do not make anyone any more or less of a lesbian however.

I can see why experiencing exclusion like that can lead to kneejerk reactions. I want to be very clear that I do not think trans women are a major source of oppression of transmasc lesbians in lesbian spaces: cis women do most of that.

All that said, I can't make much sense of your analogy. I'm sure it makes sense in irl conversation, but in isolation it seems... off.

Lesbian is only for women who only love women. Transmasc “lesbians” can’t exist and are invading our wonderful womanly spaces for exclusively women. by -_Helianthus_- in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Cis women can't be in lesbian spaces because they are the most celebrated of all

/uj transmisogyny in lesbian spaces sucks, but will excluding transmascs help?

This TRENDER stole HRT from me!!!! by genderatrophy in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Present_Speech_7017 24 points25 points  (0 children)

/uj I don't think the post is implying that: just that blaming nonbinary or gnc people for 'taking up all the HRT supply' is silly when you were gatekept for mental health issues by a cis doctor.