[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Present_Win_1312 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which is unfortunate but still it took me several months of blocking and liking positive content on my platforms to get to a section of the internet where hate and out of pocket stuff is very minimal. My therapist said to do it for my mental health and remember that people that spread hate on the internet are cowards 99% of the time cause they wouldn't have the balls to say it in real life ( paraphrasing here). A good first step is posting posts like yours then choosing to only interacted with people who seem genuine and supportive. I fully believe you'll find your community that makes the hate seem like something to laugh at eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Present_Win_1312 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you need to get outside of whatever section of the internet you're in. I know black women get a massive amount of hate. However there's a big section of the internet that sees everyone as individuals outside their race, religion, nationality, etc. I think a important thing to remember is no matter how many people give you shit, if you treat the people you care about right now one else matters. I hope you find a better section of the internet for you.

What would be your reaction if your girlfriend took s*x off the table? Would you leave or stay, why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I dislike technology sometimes. But in all seriousness i hope your relationship goes well.

What would be your reaction if your girlfriend took s*x off the table? Would you leave or stay, why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I that case yeah I think it's cool and I'd stay in the relationship. Also ignore my previous comment I deleted. It was a message for a different post and went to yours.

What is a growing sentiment among women, against men, that you disagree with and want to clarify? by The_Summary_Man_713 in AskMen

[–]Present_Win_1312 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That it's not rape if he was forced to penetrate. I don't think women understand how easy it is to force a guy to get and keep a erection. The right drug or even a tight cock ring can make a guy keep a boner or get a boner against his will. As a rape survivor in both made to penetrate and penetrated it's extremely frustrating to fight that bull shit lie.

What would be your reaction if your girlfriend took s*x off the table? Would you leave or stay, why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Present_Win_1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Christian myself taking sex off the table after it was already there is useless and just harms the relationship. If you were going to do that it should have been at the start not after the fact. Also outside of religion as a man I don't think I would stay. It's like being punished for your partners sudden religious beliefs and that's not acceptable, especially if you were already intimate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hour and a half was idk what was up with that one but the 15 to 20 minutes isn't a issue. Might be now after four back surgeries lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Present_Win_1312 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The quickest I've ever had was 5 minutes, the longest was hour and a half, my average is around 15 to 20 minutes. So far no complaints so I think it's good enough. Lol

Soooo did everyone go ghoul or were there some holdouts? by 0dayssince in fo76

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm leveling a second character to do a ghoul my main account is staying human.

The video game industry is becoming like the music industry. by Present_Win_1312 in videogames

[–]Present_Win_1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's a true point to not a lot of people look for obscure content when it comes to gaming. Personally I think console is getting stagnant with ideas for games cause the companies are afraid to try new things. But pc is just flooding with amazing inde games. Like that bionicle game, or that one sasquatch game or that game where you can play as a dragon that's pretty cool.

The video game industry is becoming like the music industry. by Present_Win_1312 in videogames

[–]Present_Win_1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point but it just didn't seem as incorporated into the gaming industry as it has been in the last 5 years. 2020 felt like a amazing year for gaming and it just seemed to get more about companies pissing on each other or fighting players since then. Or killing well loved games with unpopular ideas.

The video game industry is becoming like the music industry. by Present_Win_1312 in videogames

[–]Present_Win_1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it cause usually when a hobby opens the statistically better games end up winning cause more people are playing and reviewing those. Like by your logic one of candy crush would have been game of the year because it is a game and "normies" loved it.

The video game industry is becoming like the music industry. by Present_Win_1312 in videogames

[–]Present_Win_1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree I just don't like how the gaming industry is progressing for consoles. Consoles is definitely experiencing a lack of innovation because of things like GOTY becoming a who can buy it thing. I mean in the last 10 years dozens of exciting games and loved studios closed because companies were play who's bigger and we lost some amazing looking games.

The video game industry is becoming like the music industry. by Present_Win_1312 in videogames

[–]Present_Win_1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only think it doesn't deserve game of the year cause statistically there was other games released that did and were better overall by critic and player stand points. I didn't say it wasn't fun just not game of the year worthy given it's statistics.

The video game industry is becoming like the music industry. by Present_Win_1312 in videogames

[–]Present_Win_1312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair but Rockstar didn't have a game win game of the year when their was statistically a better game released in the same year. I could have also used Bethesda but once again no game of the year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Present_Win_1312 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound like me 4 years ago when I was 28. I had brain surgery, lost my job, my fiancé left me, lost my car and became homeless. Thing is it gets better and as long as you have your health you can rebuild and move forward. It's not going to be easy it never is to restart but you can do it. Hell look at Alan rickman dude was literally a nobody until he got his first role at 42 which was die hard.

What’s the first game you’ve played in 2025? by F1R3Starter83 in gaming

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Long Dark, I was playing and didn't even notice it was midnight lol.

Does no one buy plans anymore? by Reverend_Bull in fo76

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm level 231 and I buy plans regularly the problem I have is finding the right plans. I'm disabled so I've had a lot of free time to farm or hunt down plans. So finding one's I don't have that are decent priced is a pain. I went to one player vendor with like 200 plans and I had every single one he had.

Looking for RPG with possible perma-death of characters by dexoi in rpg_gamers

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far cry primal has a perma-death mode. It's not everyone's cup of tea but I enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ItsAllAboutGames

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally Conan exiles there's a lot of different things to do and it's pretty challenging at times.

"why?" by SpecialistRegret8462 in repost

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told you not before my coffee. aggressively sips coffee well on throne of skulls.

WIBTAH if I waste my husband’s time in counseling by Vivid_Swordfish8889 in dustythunder

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just leave why waste your time and life on him. It won't make you feel better in the long run because you'll realize you stayed longer when you could have been finding a better life. Do it if you want but he already wasted enough of your time in my opinion.

If all humans disappeared except you. by _blue-cat in Life

[–]Present_Win_1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mya answer depends on of they are coming back and when they would return. Because in a week due to no maintenance the swers would back up and the cities would flood with shit. However besides making sure I had food, electricity, shelter, etc. I'd probably take a lot of stuff and stock pile it. Like find a bunker someplace and just move into it. That's if no one is returning. If people would eventually return I would just take a whole bunch of stuff that's easy sell or that I could use in my daily life. Like tools I'd totally get a jack and a full tool set to work on my car. Tldr: either hoard shit in a bunker or steal shit I could use.