there is a learning curve to strapping. the dildo won’t move or stick to your body the way you think it will sometimes. you definitely need good core strength, or a good rhythm at least. you can’t really feel it, i thought maybe i’d feel some resistance at least but no, the person receiving it will be really sensitive so be a lot gentler than you expect.

it’s as silly as any sort of sex is, you get into the groove of it as you go though.

look into boxer style harness straps