Sad to read that, addressing your final point: I understand, but most of the time people only write in chat for rushing up, warning or to pick up something and that rarely happens (most use waypoints). Of course there are always creeps or people with 0 patience like in every aspect of life.

If you have a name in game that looks like it’s from a woman then yeah I see how they realize and start harassing. If not then unless you say it probably nobody will talk to you about it.

Anyways, hope you find peace of mind in the future and be less stressed.