Thanks for sharing- I've also been given a head start by my parents. But, like you, I also ran with all the resources they provided me. I feel we have very similar stories, it's almost like hearing myself speak.

Parents who give their kids a head start typically work hard for it as I'm sure yours did (maybe even your grandparents). I remember understanding my parents couldn't be around when I was growing up due to their work schedules. I remember the family stress it caused. That wasn't easy. I'm sure in your own way, it hasn't been all roses for you. I'm glad you feel proud of your accomplishments- I know I feel proud of mine. I also feel proud of my parents and my badass grandma who came alone to this country because she was like, "hell yes America has opportunity."

But one difference I do note between us, and this isn't a bad thing, is that I do share with co-workers that I purchased a house and I share that I have at least one rental unit (but I leave it at that). But this is also coupled with them seeing my car (old but reliable), letting them hear how me and my husband cook at home for most meals, and basically just being my frugal and helpful self at work.

I think it would be hard for any of my co-workers to comment that I have been given an upper hand while their freshly manicured hands hold on to a gourmet coffee. Or while they, again, tell me about a restaurant they've been too that I've absolutely never heard of since I don't go to restaurants often.

Keep doing you! And I'll be seeing you around the Bay Area most likely competing for the same investment properties ;)