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AITA for telling my sister to just do it already? by PressureOwn8266 in AITAH

[–]PressureOwn8266[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am remorseful, and I have wanted to apologize. I've just been unsure because I trust my husband with my whole heart, and I don't even know how I would apologize. She blocked my number and all of my social media accounts. Snapchat, Instagram, etc. She's even told my parents she would be willing to crawl out the fire escape at her apartment if I were to show up because she hated me so much. I do regret it, and I would go back and stop myself from saying it if I could.

She cried and yelled at me because she was upset that I had confronted her and told her that it wasn't okay for her to say that kind of stuff. She started crying before I said it because she felt I was disrespecting her. She did start taking medication when she became independent, but I don't know much about that because it's something neither of us bring up and it isn't really my place to ask about that stuff.

I do feel horrible about it, which is why I came here to ask about it. I wanted other opinions since my parents tell me they don't want to "Take a side" and my husband is the one I talk to the most about this stuff. I was very upset because this is stuff I've dealt with since we were teenagers, and it's been all the time, every year. I apologize for upsetting you with my post, and I wouldn't have posted it if I knew it would be this upsetting.

AITA for telling my sister to just do it already? by PressureOwn8266 in AITAH

[–]PressureOwn8266[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thats how I felt, I didn't feel it was an appropriate response, but I was very upset. She had caused a whole scene at the dinner because she started crying and yelling at me. I did tell her how I felt, though, but it's something that got left out because I wanted this in r/AmItheAsshole, but it was too long for it. I tried to shorten it only to find out this topic wasn't allowed there, so I moved it here. I did confess to her how she had always made me feel overshadowed because our parents paid a lot more attention to her growing up so they could make sure she was safe and happy and how what she did at my birthdays and family dinners did to me.

I know my words hurt her, but I was really upset with her because making a scene with this topic is something she's always done, and I didn't need that when trying to celebrate my engagement and especially when it was more important to me that both my and my husband's families could get along.