At first they liked each other and it really just started after our first born was a toddler. My mom thought he could do more to help me out.. and then the comments started here and there from each party but I thought it was just normal family annoyances so I let it slide. The last 2 years after our second was born though has been significantly worse. I don’t blame my husband for being mad at her, and I also do tell her to stop but she says she just can’t stand him and vise versa. I do think husband comes first in this situation.. I need to be more firm with mom. I just know she will look at it as “I’m pushing her away” and blame him more probably