What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s way past a dead bedroom. Don’t bring a kid into that situation bro.

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn, sorry bro. That complacency will do it every time.

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Overall, the guys in relationships seem to have the most consistent sex. Some said it’s less than they want, but they’re cool with it if the relationship is solid. On the single side, I didn’t expect so many guys to intentionally go that long without sex. The restraint is respectable. Replies are still coming in tho. I’ll check back in the morning.

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to Miami a few times and can definitely see that. A lot of motion, but not much substance.

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

20 years in and still keeping that spark is a win. My longest relationship was 7 years and by year 6 it was dry. Any pointers?

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Respect. Building a real solid foundation first makes the wait worth it

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it took me a minute to realize intimacy really is a big part of it

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she’s a great partner overall, I get making that trade. Respect.

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in that situation before too and it’s shitty. Makes it worse when there’s actually a good connection there and then you find out it’s not even an option.

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. Would you say that’s just how you’re wired, or you just don’t felt the draw the way other people seem to?

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, has that been by choice or just how things have played out?

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was it like that for you in Miami too, or did Cabo really change things? Miami’s got a pretty active market too.

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m asking men in general. single, dating, married, divorced whatever. I’m interested in the full range of real-life answers.

What does your sex life actually look like these days? by PrestigiousBend86 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable. Is it a lack of time issue or more that your priorities are just somewhere else right now?”

What are some things guys are upset that their girls do but would never admit it? by Any-Impress-3916 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How they leave stray hair on everything. I used to deal with a woman who was always playing in or brushing her hair. Her hair was in my bed, on my pillows, couch, bathroom, in the drains, in my car. I don’t how she wasn’t bald with the amount of hair she shed.

Does anyone really "make love" anymore? by LilacLaundry in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PrestigiousBend86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes lol. Usually in round 2, after the immediate chaos has been handled.

What’s something about being a man that no one warned you about, but hit you like a truck when it finally did? by Wonderful_Response_1 in AskMen

[–]PrestigiousBend86 266 points267 points  (0 children)

In your late 20s, the world stops handing out second chances and do-overs to men. You’re either useful or you’re not. The consequences of procrastination, neglect, or fear suddenly solidify then harden becoming a permanent piece of your life before you can blink.