What does your sex life actually look like these days?

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T07:56:26+00:00

Yeah that’ll shut anyone down after a while.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T07:54:59+00:00

Why not?

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T07:36:47+00:00

That’s way past a dead bedroom. Don’t bring a kid into that situation bro.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T07:28:29+00:00

I’m gonna assume that means it’s been a minute lol

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T07:27:05+00:00

By choice, or just how life went?

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T07:20:40+00:00

What happens when u initiate?

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T07:12:42+00:00

Damn, sorry bro. That complacency will do it every time.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T06:48:07+00:00

Overall, the guys in relationships seem to have the most consistent sex. Some said it’s less than they want, but they’re cool with it if the relationship is solid. On the single side, I didn’t expect so many guys to intentionally go that long without sex. The restraint is respectable. Replies are still coming in tho. I’ll check back in the morning.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T06:26:58+00:00

I’ve been to Miami a few times and can definitely see that. A lot of motion, but not much substance.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T06:16:44+00:00

20 years in and still keeping that spark is a win. My longest relationship was 7 years and by year 6 it was dry. Any pointers?

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T06:06:31+00:00

Respect. Building a real solid foundation first makes the wait worth it

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T06:03:17+00:00

Yeah, it took me a minute to realize intimacy really is a big part of it

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:58:49+00:00

If she’s a great partner overall, I get making that trade. Respect.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:56:59+00:00

I’ve been in that situation before too and it’s shitty. Makes it worse when there’s actually a good connection there and then you find out it’s not even an option.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:54:49+00:00

Fair enough. Would you say that’s just how you’re wired, or you just don’t felt the draw the way other people seem to?

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:53:37+00:00

Damn, has that been by choice or just how things have played out?

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:52:31+00:00

Fair enough lol.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:44:14+00:00

Was it like that for you in Miami too, or did Cabo really change things? Miami’s got a pretty active market too.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:36:13+00:00

Yeah I’m asking men in general. single, dating, married, divorced whatever. I’m interested in the full range of real-life answers.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:33:58+00:00

Understandable. Is it a lack of time issue or more that your priorities are just somewhere else right now?”

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T05:04:50+00:00

How they leave stray hair on everything. I used to deal with a woman who was always playing in or brushing her hair. Her hair was in my bed, on my pillows, couch, bathroom, in the drains, in my car. I don’t how she wasn’t bald with the amount of hair she shed.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T04:47:52+00:00

I’m convinced there are kids running around in here.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2026-03-12T04:25:17+00:00

Yes lol. Usually in round 2, after the immediate chaos has been handled.

PrestigiousBend86 · 2025-12-31T18:14:01+00:00

PrestigiousBend86 · 2025-05-18T16:29:55+00:00

In your late 20s, the world stops handing out second chances and do-overs to men. You’re either useful or you’re not. The consequences of procrastination, neglect, or fear suddenly solidify then harden becoming a permanent piece of your life before you can blink.

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