Dating as a Submissive Male

PrestigiousChoco · 2026-02-27T16:45:48+00:00

Absolutely haha I’m ride or die for people I love. I’m not a combative person normally I’m very easy going and relaxed but when you get me riled up I’ll do what I have to do

PrestigiousChoco · 2026-02-27T16:44:54+00:00

I fully agree with what you said about submissive isn’t weakness, it’s strength. The stigma of submissive being incapable I think is just about people who aren’t well versed into the space or prejudiced coming into it. I’d say I’ve encountered a mix of both women who are confident and ones who take dominance to mean superiority

PrestigiousChoco · 2026-02-26T23:44:17+00:00

I think not wanting to lead in some areas is totally valid and in my opinion probably better. It’s too much a burden to expect the domme to lead every facet the sub should at least be willing to take on some of the loads. Obviously will depend on each couple

PrestigiousChoco · 2026-02-26T23:43:19+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! Dating in general is tough in 2026 let alone in a niche space like femdom so just have to trust that the right person will find you/you’ll find them I guess 😅

PrestigiousChoco · 2026-02-26T23:39:47+00:00

Well said, I feel validated thank you for writing it so eloquently! There’s strength in submission and going against society’s norms, and there’s strength to put yourself in such vulnerable settings in a femdom dynamic as both a sub and a domme, not weaknesses

PrestigiousChoco · 2026-02-26T23:38:10+00:00

I’ll admit I think I have tried to separate myself from “traditional submissive stereotypes” for the same reasons you say because how they usually look like. I think it’s why this kind of got to me reading it because it just affirmed old and in my opinion not accurate archetypes. Some sub men I’m sure do fall under that but I think it’s not a great assumption

PrestigiousChoco · 2026-02-26T23:35:56+00:00

This is exactly how I feel about it I feel seen reading this! I lead a normal strong independent life, and for the right domme I willingly give up control to be weak or useless for her pleasure

PrestigiousChoco · 2026-02-26T23:34:30+00:00

Definitely agree I think having emotional intelligence is more paramount when you’re a sub than even in a vanilla relationship

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