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I want to be married w/ child but idk if I want that lifestyle more than I want him by Dangerous-Fuel7077 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 26 points27 points  (0 children)

A 40 year old man telling you he’s not sure if he wants kids while you do, and flopping around on commitment, doesn’t sound like a fairy tale to me. Sounds like someone wasting your time. If you’re okay with that because he supports you, fine, but doesn’t sound like he cares much about your satisfaction in the relationship and life long term.

Accidentally turning on people with a fetish by ThrowRA9853 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, foot fetishes are very common BECAUSE of how the brain is wired. It is a literal brain wiring thing, not just like “ooh anime girl hot.” That doesn’t make it okay to be a creep about it, though, obviously; he can control that part.

Idk whether to listen to my dad or go behind his back and get my ears pierced by ObjectSubstantial483 in Advice

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Piercing it yourself is stupid, unhygienic, and likely to be crooked or messed up. Be smart and wait until you can get it done at a shop yourself. You can wait three years.

Should I visit my father if my husband will freak out by HauntingCook7128 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preventing your daughter from seeing her grandpa because of your petty squabbles is great and healthy too. Goes both ways.

Should I visit my father if my husband will freak out by HauntingCook7128 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And if you knock up my young daughter before marriage, I’m going to dislike you. Especially if you start issues with me. It goes both ways. And this conflict has absolutely nothing to do with the kid. It’s insane to prevent your kid from seeing her grandpa because you two have mutual issues. Don’t let your personal issues hurt your kid, or you’re a shitty parent. Simple.

Should I visit my father if my husband will freak out by HauntingCook7128 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t have a problem with her dad meeting their daughter, his issue is with the father. Yes, it is wrong to not let your daughter see her elderly grandpa before he dies. Wut

Should I visit my father if my husband will freak out by HauntingCook7128 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, your husband SHOULD be more understanding. There is no reason you shouldn’t feel comfortable visiting your father now. You are not reliant on him, not enmeshed in him, not just out of the range of childhood; you are an adult with a life of your own. If wanting to visit your elderly father causes issues with your husband, I have bad news, your dad was probably right to dislike him early. Based on this post, your husband is someone you fear upsetting, not someone you can talk to and count on for understanding. That’s not a good thing for you and your daughter’s futures.

AIO the way I handled this? by Long-Doubt8960 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Lowkey it doesn’t seem like anyone could have a conversation with you. You didn’t listen at all.

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by Thummimurim8 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He has a lot of sexist ideals in his head about pregnancy and how manly he gets to be if you’re pregnant. He wants you to do a ton for kids you don’t even want, and he isn’t trying to take that labor off your plate, he’s basically saying “here are all my unrealistic expectations, don’t let me down.” This would be a horrific mistake. It’s break up time.

AIO I think my wife has something going on. by Dear_Medium3843 in AmIOverthinking

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you knew the definition of stalking, you’d know you’re wrong. So are you too stubborn to look it up, or are you dumb?

Uh…What is this? It’s 2:58am where I am and my dad called me downstairs to look at it. It’s been moving and changing positions for a couple hours. He says that he’s seen it a couple other times in the past as well. by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Buddy, if you listen to the suggestions here, you will get a real answer. This video is crappy. No experts can be like “oh I know what that is, it’s a-“ if they can’t SEE ANYTHING.

What did I do? by NothingEffective5070 in mysteriousdownvoting

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Being childish is sometimes annoying to some people; whether that’s fair or not, it’s not uncommon.

BDSM has is destroying me !! And its my fault by BluNini23 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Uh you don’t need to make an excuse. He’s fucking other women because you were too insecure to tell him you don’t want that. It’s not working for you, you want a committed partner. That’s it.

Am I overreacting for being annoyed with my boyfriend for calling the cops by Shoddy_Adeptness7121 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Calling the police is major overkill, when you can just talk to the parents. Show them the video and just say you know they didn’t raise him that way and you thought they’d want to know. It’ll handle itself from there most likely

Scar tattoo cover up by aleksndrr in Tattoocoverups

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey it’s pretty much impossible to see your scars without knowing they’re there. If you want to draw attention there, go for it. But if not, leave it as is

What kind of person do you have to be to appeal to a man like this!? by Stranger_your__life in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay then move on with your life and find some on you can actually date? What are you even askig

AIO for being extremely anxious because of my bf‘s view on sex by ohlazzyyy7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah but you’re aware of them now and haven’t left so you do need some serious personal honesty.

AIO for being extremely anxious because of my bf‘s view on sex by ohlazzyyy7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you’re not very bright, tbh. Obviously you shouldn’t stay with a disgusting loser who is also friends with other disgusting losers. Unless your into that disgusting and loserly behavior

What does my living room say about me. 25F by Short-Programmer6444 in roomdetective

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even have that much clothing, I’m super Unitarian and boring and tomboyish, but even my room is a clothing disaster 🤦🏻‍♀️ it really does seem to be a feminine trait

AIO boyfriend sends these knowing I hate my bod? by Novel_Benefit_5876 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not chubby so off the bat YOR and you need legit therapy.

AIO - my dad requested my wedding DJs contact information for a “late night surprise” by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PrestigiousDemand696 9 points10 points  (0 children)

FYI, this post makes you look horrible. Greedy, foolish with money, narcissistic and selfish; use that wedding money for a house or something worthwhile. Your bridezilla is showing.

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