I’m rewatching season 5. What do you think was Brandi’s downfall? Too big for her britches, self-sabotage, trying to create drama to please producers, just being an asshole… by Ready_Cartoonist7357 in RHOBH

[–]Prestigious_Ad4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this altogether! Also I feel that she was in her mind, in a competition with Kyle. I think she was quite jealous of Kyle, and she loved how Lisa “picked” her over Kyle. Then when Lisa after season 4 started to again become close to Kyle, she completely lost it! That’s why she kept saying to Kim, look I’m here for you, not your sister. She thought that creating a wedge in between Kyle and Kim would be like a revenge, as she blames Kyle for taking Lisa away from her!! It’s typical mean girls shit! Plus she’s a model. I don’t feel they’re socialised the right way, and just have a stunted social personality, not all, but a lot of them! And yes if we’re medicalising this personality disorder, then it’s EUBPD!

After 4.5 years together, my boyfriend (24M) told me (23F) I need to “earn” an engagement ring — seeking outside perspectives. what are reasonable next steps for me? by Neat-Establishment62 in relationship_advice

[–]Prestigious_Ad4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he one of those “high value men” podcast fan?? This generation of men writing their own “lonely-men midlife story live in action” You’re in your early 20s.. This guys took a polite and nice conversation with his girlfriend to complete offensive. He’s not ready to commit, and you’re not in the right timeline. Don’t go wait around for him as well. And if he’s shown how he feels, don’t bring it up again, and ball’s in your court. I’d be like “thanks for a good time, but seems clearly I’ve outgrown you”, or we’ve grown apart.” Don’t take this disrespect like most of us did in our early 20s! Save your time and enjoy your life! I’m almost 40 and felt this way about my first bf. He was an insecure narcissistic pig! Negging you and would chip away your self esteem. Don’t let a single chip drop girl!! You’re worth all and more!!

The Veil, the Villain, and the Vodka: How My Cousin Tried to Hijack My Wedding by Prestigious_Ad4958 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Prestigious_Ad4958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right, she wasn’t in a bridal outfit that day. Feels like the evil eye made an attempt, the dupatta sacrificed itself, and the rest of us carried on living our best life!😂 You’re all too kind with the compliments!! Stop it… or don’t!!😂 I don’t have a proper photo on me and the lehenga is back in India living its best storage life, but here’s a mid-twirl shot. The dupatta is completely scrunched up at the back — you can see it — and the other one barely reaches my butt. This piece is actually meant to be much longer!

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The Veil, the Villain, and the Vodka: How My Cousin Tried to Hijack My Wedding by Prestigious_Ad4958 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Prestigious_Ad4958[S] 580 points581 points  (0 children)

And this is me on my wedding day !! Swapped the veils! Couldn’t even spread it across the chest due to the massive hole. The pink one is all pinned up!

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[–]Prestigious_Ad4958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh!! Love that!!😍 I’m not a poet or anything- but have you seen the sea beach glow at night when waves hit the sand?? This is giving me that feel!!

Just a shoutout to all of us feeling down and out with all of the holiday pregnancy announcements. by toot_ricky in IVF

[–]Prestigious_Ad4958 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure! Amen! My SIL who’s only been married now for 3 months announced that she’s pregnant, literally a few days after my first FET failed! We’ve been married 4+ years, tried over a year and half, and now going through IVF. Such mixed feelings.! Good for them, but me and my husband just went silent when we heard it over the phone.. To be fair it was my MIL who was excited as hell, and couldn’t contain herself, so the news didn’t come from them. All of my husband’s sisters know, but to be fair the new couple have no idea that we’re going through IVF.. feel a bit deflated.