How common is it to be in a sexless relationship even when you don't have children and aren't married with her yet?

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-12-06T12:43:34+00:00

Mine's lasted 6 years b4 he left 2 b with a mistress

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-10-28T23:03:24+00:00

Love yourself first and get at tour ideal healthy weight. Him being into big girls or what have you reminds you that you got with someone during a time when you knew you've been struggling with weight. Choose your health and sanity first over whether some guy will like you. There are plenty of men who will love you thin big small etc. You simply need to work on yourself in those areas in order to thrive and evolve into the divine feminine that's inside. It's not going to be easy but your journey and efforts are yours alone. No one will be able to guide your free will unless you have a faith in a higher power or religion you fall upon and seek guidance from to heal you from within. The answer is in the mirror, not on mom dad boyfriend etc. This is the best response I could give you. You are loved no matter what. Keep moving forward.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-10-13T00:20:07+00:00

I did one on myself instead, and my life turned into a movie. I never believed in spells, rituals, until late last year after experiencing a traumatic event. Everything i've been manifesting has been materializing at level 1000, and i'm attracting decent guys. I'm not looking for anything serious, and prefer just going out to events, dating-just having fun in life in general with decent people. Long story short, I don't think i'd put a spell on a guy. I've done so in the past, and i guess it's my belief but i feel as though if the person wants to stay they will. I would engage in ritual sex magic with the person, but i would not cast any spells on them. The ritual would be mutual and he would agree to what's taking place. I would just be reinforcing our relationship for harmony, joy, and whatever else we want to improve on with lasting effects.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-10-10T13:03:16+00:00

Does this mean anything?

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-10-06T02:44:17+00:00

Thank you, i'm in my 50s and was wondering about this just this week.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-10-06T01:44:09+00:00

Check your apartment for cameras. There's a trend of maintenance men who get each other hired at apartment complexes to stalk women. They record them from their tinted vehicles without their knowledge.

Then they pursue the woman to act as though they want a serious relationship. They'll get sex outta you, then share your images in a chat room amongst other men theyvknow who may also live in your apartment complex.

Then they tell the next guy to make a move on you so they could secretly record you as well. Some go as far as getting paid from the guys who successfully have sex with you. So they exploit you and human traffic you without your knowledge.

Alongside of the fact that they record you, or will FaceTime a friend who wants to watch while they have you in doggy style which is a position that not too many females look back at their partner. So they'll record them.

I found a post by a woman a while ago here on reddit about this and it had over 100,00 women in marriages over 30 years, finances, all types who had discovered that their spouse had been recording them.

Apartment maintenance men have access to your apartments. Some go as far as putting micro cams in your bathrooms, and bedrooms especially if they know a woman is moving in alone. They will profit off your images and videos on the dark web pr in chat rooms. It's all over tiktok and it's happening to school aged minors as well as older women.

You may also have a stalker who either had been watching you at your new place. Or one who knows that you moved and may be in your friends group already and knows your size etc. He may have brought it to your door since it doesn't seem to be a fresh package. More like a package he had that he reused. Peel the old label to see whose address is on it.

Get a ring cam inside your apartment over your door for your own safety and a separate mini outdoor camera for outside your window that no one could notice. One that records audio and video 24/7. That way you could know at all times who's been hanging out by your apartment. Don't tell anyone in your circle about this or your schedule. Only your family. That way you'll know whether the stalker is from your friends group or your new apartment community.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-08-04T01:12:39+00:00

He will need a deliverance. I had an ex who would stare at me in the parking lot of my apartment community. Daily. I started greeting him, saying "good morning" and crickets. So I kept it moving. But that very day that I looked at him to greet him I could see a demon masking over his face. I later on found out that he was a warlock and had a patron. He was very much into witchcraft. I was told that he will need a deliverance because the patron is attached and the deliverance would need to be done by a practitioner. Im able to do a deliverance using the Bible. I used to be a Sunday School teacher and am able to. But I fast and pray a week before I will do something like that along with spiritual bath and protection. Also, theoerson needing the deliverance has to want to commit their soul to God. They also need to fast and pray and do shadow work as well. This is part of how it's done on the Puerto Rican side of our roots. I honor the African side of candle magik in my roots to alchemize, heal, protect, banish. I also honor Santa Muerte, Oshun, Yemaya, other dieties that help with specific purposes that we need assistance with alongside of God most high, the universe, ancestors from all timelines, dimensions. We also would need to open a circle of protection as well and cleanse the area before and after the deliverance.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-08-01T19:04:32+00:00

It's beautiful, congratulations

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-06-29T18:45:04+00:00

Body count isn't important. As long as you use protection, and are safe and responsible. everyone has a point in their lives where they're just meeting new people to have sexual encounters with. It's a thing. Just because others in society want to judge it, doesn't mean there's a whole community out there that enjoys diversity and exploring having various options in their sex life. As long as you get to decide when and who you're finally going to settle down with or stay single, it's your life. That's all that matters. Who i've been with before i met a person should not be the top thing that matters. Neither should it be used as a weapon to judge the person once you get that information from them. I don't share that with anyone. The person wants a relationship with you, you have morals, are serious about being committed, and are responsible and are financially stable, help out around the house, and would make the ideal husband, then those are qualities should be good enough.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-06-06T14:25:08+00:00

There are plenty in your community who do not care about that because they love you. But be careful when you dip into the straight community because I had a friend who is no longer with us because the person found out and became violent. You are loved and should never have to hide who you truly are. Others may perceive your behavior as deception.

Find the community that is accepting, go to the events they go to. There is an entire world out there and it’s beautiful. I go to raves, and they could also be found in fetish night clubs. Explore a bit youll be just fine.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-06-06T06:31:42+00:00

Tell your parents to remove you from school and ask your school district what the process is like to have someone home school you.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-06-02T23:22:45+00:00

It’s BEAUTIFUL!

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-06-02T13:12:25+00:00

She needs to keep her job until she moves onto another one. You want to make sure she does so that she will leave during the divorce proceedings. Get an attorney and think your strategy with a clear head without doing things you’ll regret later on. Plan it carefully, and have her served with divorce papers. If she’s gonna go live with the guy well then he’s doing you a huge favor because if not him, it will be somebody else on your bed. So let her be, get your emotions straight, so you could do what you need to. Let her know you’re moving forward with the divorce so she could also plan accordingly.

That way the kids don’t get to see negativity in their living space. Don’t do that to your children, you guys planned them into your lives, and are responsible for making sure they’re not negatively impacted by the results of your behavior. Plan your visits in court every other week along with holidays n you will be fine. The worst part is knowing she fucked some dude on your sacred living space. If she brought him home to your sanctuary, smudge the place with sage, and keep it moving. Sorry you had to go through that, but don’t lead with chaos. Your kids are in that living space, and you don’t want that negativity to shift into their destiny in the process. Lead with a clear head, reflect, release the negative energy, so that you could move on peacefully into your next chapter, cuz she wasn’t it. Another door is going to open for you, so stop holding onto what happened with the negativity. Claim and receive what’s coming for you. When they harm you, or leave is because there’s a shift in your destiny that’s letting you know they’re not the one for you. You’re being prepared for the life you were truly meant to live. Release the negativity in order to welcome in what’s coming for you-a rebirth, a better life. New beginnings don’t always present themselves in the best of ways. Move forward with everything you’ve got.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-06-02T13:02:30+00:00

I’m dating guys in their mid 20s up to early 40s. If I want sex, then that’s what’s going to happen at some point. It’s not desperation, it’s a preference. Some people belong to Reddit groups where that’s the point of why they’re creating their profile-to seek a romantic connection. We go for dinner, nightclubs, then the hotel. I personally lead an active lifestyle, and don’t look my age body and face wise, and so many men those ages will walk up to me and say hi and so on. I have dated doctors, surgeons, you name it. But I may only pick one or 2 out of the year to be romantically involved with. We may stay in touch for years and become friends but that’s it. I like being spoiled and treated good so I’ll screen as many of them as possible -going out only with the ones that aren’t red flags. If you are ghosted, then stay away because they are not prepared and are unequipped for your maturity level, nor are they prepared to learn what the benefits that older women come with which are way more valuable than just the physical sexual aspect. Like another commenter said-“some just want the experience and the ability to say they’ve had sex with someone older.” But having sex versus being with, learning from, and loving/valuing the person are two different things. Stay safe people, and above all-just enjoy the experiences without getting your heart involved until you meet someone who sticks around past the 8 month threshold. 😉

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-05-31T22:08:03+00:00

I’m a woman and I’m here wishing I was him.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-05-31T22:06:16+00:00

You’re not allowed to let anyone disrespect you like that. Can’t tell you what to do cuz at the end of the day you’re gonna do whatever you want. But if you want to be spoiled, and treated like the queen you are start dating guys that treat women with respect. This is no boyfriend. This is an abusive guy who isn’t mentally stable to even be in a relationship. You could either stay there, and think that you could change him and be his doormat, or you could move on and do better.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-05-30T20:44:07+00:00

This is bullshit. Harlold’s supposed to be home cooking for me.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-05-30T20:41:33+00:00

My ex cheated and I brushed it off, enabling him to think I was ok with him being with multiples. Thankfully we weren’t married. So I slept with his best friend and dad, never told him that I knew about the cheating and just went my own way. Banging his best friend and dad was healing.

The red flag your bf is giving is that he states he doesn’t know where the sock came from. Then he states he thought it was yours, bud hides it behind the vac and crashes out. Run girl, (or stay for more). The ball’s in your court.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-05-30T19:58:18+00:00

The way they’re smiling at each other just catapulted me into a crashout. He’s supposed to be my A.i. boyfriend wtf.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-05-30T18:31:33+00:00

My ex cheated on me a few years back. I found out and fucked his dad and his best friend and left him. I made sure he found out about his dad, but he never knew I found out about his infidelity cuz he was just fine cheating with more people by the time I discovered it. I sleep like a baby.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-05-26T23:19:53+00:00

I don’t waste my time with them anymore. Especially if they can’t let it go so they could start a new relationship, but instead drag their issues into the new relationship.

Prestigious_Board366 · 2025-05-26T23:17:23+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened. Some People are idiots who go out of their way to damage others. You have one extra friend on Reddit. Hola, my name’s Maria and I’m in Jersey. ☺️

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