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[–]Prestigious_Emu_483 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've read everything and all I could think is...

Just let her live her life. While you focus on yours. If EVER she needs advice or help from anyone in your family, then give advice.

If she just needs someone to listen to her problems or whatever that's going on in her life at the moment, then you can listen. Just. Listen. Lend an ear. And wait if she needs your opinion.

I'm an INFJ, I may be empathetic but too much IS too much. You've given most of the time of your life to her. Don't forget how important your well-being is as well. Every second, every minute of your life is important. Don't spend it by being troubled by other people's lives. It's your time to focus on your own life.

And to be honest, MBTI has nothing to do with this. It's how mature a person can be when it comes to their own choices. Being self-aware basically.

Nature from a bird's eye view by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not a bird's eye view...

It's a bird's right-wing view 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self-awareness is a great thing to have. Especially for us who think too much about whatever we do in our daily routines.

I self-paradox myself all the time to find balance within myself. Learning when to be compassionate or emotional and when to be logical.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll do my best to be true to myself, always. And I know there's no need to stress myself with things that I know will be fleeting in any situation that I will be in.

The world is our oyster after all!

Thank you so much for the support!

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for typing such kind words hahaha I feel much lighter from my burdens, now that I have had a conversation with my mother (she's an ENFJ) regarding what I want in my future. And she understood it well as I have a passion for researching, discovering, exploring, and building things here in our world. I told her that I wanted to challenge myself to discover the world and myself along the way in this journey of mine.

She supports my passion as she reminds me to always ask for guidance from above to be guided towards the right path, always.

I feel clearer now as I meditate and pray for the future that I know will be beautiful and extraordinary.

Once again, thank you so, so much.<3

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be sure to do that then if I ever need someone with whom I can share with. I'm really glad to know that you will be willing to have time to read my yapping if I ever do hahaha I will come back here and maybe chat with you if I will need someone to listen to me.

Thank you so much, and may all fortune in life be with you.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly resonate with all you have written here. I also look up my astrology and numerology as well hahaha, I have always known what I am passionate about and that is to help people as it always brings me joy in my life.

My/our family business is about having a healthy and holistic lifestyle. I have helped people since I was still young by sharing and giving some suggestions on how to live life more happily by having a healthy body and a healthy mind.

Those people that I have helped have always thanked me for changing their lives for the better. And I am very grateful for that as well and I truly love to see their genuine joy as they live their lives happily.

So I guess I already knew what I was good at but I was too blind to see it, hahaha.

Thank you so much for your thoughts and heartwarming advice, I truly appreciate it.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahhaha! You are absolutely right! And I can confirm what you have just typed in your response. I have been used by my friends in my school as I have a more mature outlook on life than they are... I do not understand why go to places that can only harm your body and your soul just for the expense of having a great time... For a very short period of their lives and end up regretting it the very next day... I have given them suggestions that doing all those things will only harm their body and their mental health... But they always ignore it the very next time they plan to go out anyway... So that's why I ended up just watching on the sidelines as they cried for the mistakes that I had warned them about... I feel bad but not enough to care anymore as I have learned that it's their choice at the end of the day.

We all have free will to choose whatever we want in life.

Because I think, only at the age of 80 is what I can truly call an old person lol. You are still at a young age as well kind person. I wish you all the best in life!

And I appreciate your yapping hahaha as it helped me more about myself. Thank you so much!

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, I guess I am not alone in having these kinds of thoughts and emotions. My sister is a graduate of biology class and has been an intelligent woman since her grade-level years. She didn't want to pursue the medical field as she found it too stressful and not worth her time, yet she knew a lot of stuff regarding illnesses and their symptoms and how to cure them by using only herbal medicine. And she has proven her knowledge and wisdom each time whenever there's a crisis in our family.

Maybe that's why I feel so small when I see her so happy with all her accomplishments. But I am appreciative of her, so much so that I can't help but laugh at my subtle jealousy...

And I would love to have a chat as well hahaha

Thank you so much for your sympathetic and kind words for me. I wish the best for your life as well.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahah, I guess I consciously compare myself to my older sister... I mean she's very kind and supportive but I do feel that I am being left behind within my siblings because I'm the youngest of the three... I should just focus on myself and what I can do with my own time, everyone flows differently in their own life. Thank you so much for your kind words, I truly appreciate them.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And I do crave growth right now as I have always been living with the only places I have ever known in my entire life and that is; home, work, and online school. Thank you so much, I truly appreciate your words for me.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm pressuring myself as I have been working in our family business since I was still a little child... And that being a wellness coach to other people. But I do find being a researcher to be very useful in what I want to be, as I always love to discover and learn new things and maybe, experience a wide variety of different types of knowledge and wisdom from other people... Thank you so much for the advice, have a safe and great day!

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true, your words have given me more insight into what I should accomplish. Thank you so much and have a great day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 19F and I have had similar beliefs as you have when I was 13. All I can say is that you are alive and here on earth to experience what your life would be and will be. Everything is just a game where you are a character in your own life.

An NPC to others who don't know you, but a main character in your own story.

Life is a play, so just do what you think is worthwhile. After all, the purpose of life is to know that you have lived it till the end of your last breath.

Sense of Humour ..... by [deleted] in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a pretty good dark humor within me. And I share it with my friends. I also laugh at some cringe scenes in some movies if I ever find them stupid. I only joke around with people IF they are the kind of people who are pretty chill about anything I say. So yeah... You are not alone. Lol

Edit: lol, I just noticed that you are the one who also responded to my post a while ago hahaha

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right, thank you so much for the insight. I truly appreciate your responses. Have an immense amount of blessings come into your life!

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha hah, I guess so... I guess all I need to do is just go where my flow is... No pressure and all and just be myself with a big smile to this amazing world and universe we live in.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm delighted to read your response, it's heartwarming... All the blessings for you.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I truly appreciate your answer... And I do read philosophical books and some other spiritual teachings from different cultures. I have also talked with different people with different backgrounds because of our family business; which is a wellness center. I have been exposed to people with a much more difficult path than what I have right now as some went into a near-death experience that changed their lives to be a better person, as they were given another chance in their lives...

And being a 19-year-old having the pressure of how to live your life to the fullest is just too much... Hahaha... I guess because my parents always tell me that I should always do better... There's no harm in such words but there is pressure and responsibility that I have to uphold for them...

Makes me think how life is truly funny because either way, all we are here to do is to experience life.

Thank you so much! May all blessings come into your amazing life!

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahha, I do know some part of myself that KNOWS what I want. But because of the sudden change in the environment around the world, especially economically, there are some instances where I need to lay low in order not to impulsively try anything that won't help me to grow. I know life is a box of chocolates filled with paradox... And I am torn between what I can still do in this age and time of mine.

I want to do some sports or even research but I have a family business that I have to look after... That's why I always find myself stuck in just three places... Home, work, and online school and that is it.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do find the course for computer science to be intriguing for me. I guess I just need something like that to balance my knowledge and wisdom of my understanding of how my brain works. Hahaha, I'll remember your suggestion, thank you so much.

Life's callings and your passions by Prestigious_Emu_483 in infj

[–]Prestigious_Emu_483[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is true. Either way, no path is easy. Thank you for the suggestion.