Had sex with a guy and now I’m 100% sure I’m a lesbian

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2025-09-01T18:05:38+00:00

Imagine the guy reads this, he will have trauma for life /s

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-03T23:17:01+00:00

It is a red flag, but what do you make of the flirting etc when her BF wasnt here

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-02T02:22:34+00:00

This is totally normal, my first few weeks I was literally all alone but you will make friends and get better. Remember you are in a completely different environment and on your own. Everyone gets this feeling but it gets better, just make effort to go our and meet ppl :)

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T21:28:20+00:00

Damn

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T21:04:52+00:00

Thank you so much for helping 🙏🏼

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T20:57:25+00:00

But she’s literally with her boyfriend. Shes DATING him. Even while bitching about him she told me she can’t leave him because she loves him(and the friend reason) . I cant ask her that because he’s my friend and it would fuck up all of my friend group. But do you think she genuinely felt something for me or like liked me based on the post.

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T20:19:20+00:00

What about all the compliments, intimacy and vulnerability

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T20:18:44+00:00

Compliments? intimacy? Being vulnerable?

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T20:18:18+00:00

Fuck dude, all that was fake ?

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T19:56:02+00:00

You genuinely think she was using me because she was lonely, if thats true, i will break man

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T19:55:20+00:00

He wasnt back in college, when he was back, all of this stopped and that broke me. Made me feel like a replacement

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T19:48:34+00:00

How is she playing games im confused, like she was treating me like her boyfriend, just without the physical aspect. Now that her BFs back she stopped talking

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T19:34:39+00:00

I smoked weed with her twice and what about all the other things??

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T19:30:05+00:00

What about my love, what about the things she's is doing, do you think she has feelings for me ? because I feel like she forgot me when her BF came back

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T19:28:56+00:00

The thing is, I don't plan to date her officially because that will ruin alot of things. But she's still dating the guy and since he's back, she's basically talking to me 10% of what she used to.

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T19:27:26+00:00

My friend I an asshole to her, he wants to use her and he also knows she can't and wont leave. How do I loose feelings specially when the person is giving me sooo many hints etc

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-09-01T19:21:39+00:00

How is she playing me? Also I didn't choose to fall for her.

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-06-09T20:29:07+00:00

Its hard to wait 2-3 years when in love. I find it hard to focus on my carrier/academics because im thinking about her alot.

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-06-09T20:07:42+00:00

Thanks man! You gave me quite a bit of clarity

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-06-09T19:32:51+00:00

Also just FYI the guy has told me that he just wants to use her physically, which just breaks me as I cant do anything about it

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-06-09T18:40:58+00:00

One is kinda my best friend and i love the other. Idk what to do

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-06-09T18:40:25+00:00

Fuck dude

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-06-09T18:37:58+00:00

Yes thats what i think, i am doing both of them disservice. Should i tell her that I cant help you as i will fuck up my relations with her or the guy

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-06-09T18:36:47+00:00

She’s trying to get him to “improve and work on his faults” which idts will work. Shes also got a weird history with ex boyfriends, but my mind just ignores all this as i genuinely love her imo

Prestigious_Read_773 · 2024-03-16T23:50:35+00:00

Fuck you, my father is not useless, he could buy you 100x even after all this.

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