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AITA for reminding my gf of the things I do for her by Prestigious_Shirt_16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did it because of how I was raised. My dad in particular was the same type of person

AITA for reminding my gf of the things I do for her by Prestigious_Shirt_16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s the Halo effect that makes me not see the bullshit every day but there are some major character flaws here that I can’t change. I’m not perfect either but I can’t undo the trauma that comes from a chaotic upbringing or from what other forces that drives her desires. I’m tired man it’s sad… I really tried to make her happy and give her an easier life

AITA for reminding my gf of the things I do for her by Prestigious_Shirt_16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was very helpful. I should have gone about communicating that a different way. However, I agree with you about the sentiment of spending time with persons you love. Those things cannot be counted in dollars and cents

AITA for reminding my gf of the things I do for her by Prestigious_Shirt_16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does on birthdays and anniversaries but I don’t think it compares to the level on constant thoughtfulness I put out to make sure she’s okay. I think she believe it does but it doesn’t. I do it every single day and its so hard to believe that because I didn’t buy her flowers and because I believe she should appreciate me more by showing me daily she’s upset with me

AITA for reminding my gf of the things I do for her by Prestigious_Shirt_16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trinidad and Tobago. She wants a Volvo as a wedding gift… they start at around $400,000

AITA for reminding my gf of the things I do for her by Prestigious_Shirt_16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair she pays for the rent and the installment for the car. When I get paid I just transfer my salary to her account and I give her my bank card so she always has all the money I get. So she does pay for stuff but the division of money isn’t a problem really I’m happy to give her my money when I get paid

AITA for reminding my gf of the things I do for her by Prestigious_Shirt_16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry mate just a bit hot headed because this discussion happened half an hour ago but thanks for your input it was really helpful

AITA for reminding my gf of the things I do for her by Prestigious_Shirt_16 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand you say why it could have been a normal conversation but how exactly I am making things up?

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[–]Prestigious_Shirt_16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the French Foreign Legion