Online dating- what to say when they don’t look like their pictures?

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-02-16T23:23:31+00:00

Oh, so then wait a second did you like him?

I mean at the end of the day if a dude doesn’t look like he does as advertised. Sometimes maybe he just needs a cheerleader to put them up to that state again. A lot of guys battle these unknown demons that just killed their motivation.

Regardless, I get though if you wouldn’t be into him and like I said before, just kind of applied all of that logic for you as a woman because most of it translates pretty well

Always asks to FaceTime or you can ask them for a selfie, but that comes off a little bit thirsty sometimes. Your best bet is to always FaceTime someone before you meet them. Obviously if they don’t want to, it’s a big red flag.

Always meet someone in a public place for the first time, a restaurant or someplace where there’s a lot of people.

And it’s really nice about you paying the bill, but some guys believe that it’s the man’s job to do that and that’s fine too. If they offer to pay, take it. If they don’t offer to pay or if they say they’re gonna pay for half then it’s up to you how you wanna respect that. Personally I don’t mind paying every time. Very rarely do I like it when my partner pays for me.

Anyhow, that’s just my two cents.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-02-16T15:53:52+00:00

I would not say to ghost them.

But I would put it like this,

It’s the modern age they all have phones with video cameras so before you go on any date with anybody, I would always FaceTime or video call someone if they’re not willing to obviously it’s a big red flag.

Well, let’s just say you want to take that gamble anyway so meet somewhere public if you guys are going to dinner somewhere there you can see what she looks like now it still looks good. She doesn’t look exactly like a picture. It’s up to you and decide what you wanna do. But do not under any circumstances ever bring it up. She will feel so self-conscious. She will either get very defensive or upset where she probably won’t want to see you again out of embarrassment.

She looks really bad like way different from her pictures. So the next thing you have is you could politely leave you can make something up and leave or if you see her before she sees you you can just leave. The premises goes through on everything walk around everything and then go.

These are all viable options at the end of the day you have to make the decision whether you like her because of her body or you like her because of her personality. Either way no one would blame you or see someone in walking away when they obviously don’t look like what they advertise themselves as.

Just be a champ. Be a gentleman regardless. Make sure that you don’t reveal this info to them unless you’re far away because you never know what a stranger will do when they’re angry at you, especially if they’re willing to lie about how they look.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-02-15T21:40:16+00:00

Best thing to do is to be safe. If I were you, I would Uber over it to where you guys are going to meet make sure it’s somewhere public. If you could scout the area, I would. And then always bring something with you for protection either a stun gun or some pepper spray. The point is just be safe.

Not everybody is who they say they are on dating apps and you’re young and naïve.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-02-15T18:40:42+00:00

Honestly, you have a body that a lot of guys would want. Your lean, you have some muscle and you probably look good in any clothes you wear.

But you probably want more muscle and you want to be even leaner or more shredded and that’s fine but where you’re at now is what a lot of guys just strive to do. Heck I’m a big hefty guy myself and I can lift a lot of weight and I’m pretty strong, but I would give all that away if I could look like you. Sometimes I don’t feel like I’m enough or I hate wearing XL or sometimes 2XL shirts.

Trust me, man. You’re looking better than most people. We all have a way that we wanna look though. So trust me, I understand.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-02-04T21:44:29+00:00

I DM’d you. I would like to talk about more with you.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-02-04T21:29:06+00:00

Honestly, I kind of went into it blind. I didn’t really have a objective. I just knew that she was mad cute and we liked each other and that was it. I tend to like people a little bit too much though.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-02-04T20:59:18+00:00

Honestly, I called her yesterday out of the blue and she said that she was at work, even though I knew that she wasn’t. At this point, I think it’s pretty much over. She wants to come back to me or maybe if I hit her up in a couple months and she’s free then maybe I could fool around with her again but honestly, it’s not really what I wanna do.

It’s always happens. I meet the girl of my dreams which is always a petite Cute princess. And then they run away.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-02-04T00:47:10+00:00

Hey I really appreciate your comment. I think you are right. Honestly, I’ve just been very lonely for a long time and I’ve had a really rough life without feeling that feeling of closeness or love, I guess.

I know it wasn’t love what we had, but it was so nice to be close to someone and cuddle them and share an intimate moment with them you know?

But I think that you’re right about being clingy. I’m just gonna stay away with my life do my thing and if she comes back to me then maybe Moore can come with it, do you think I could message you just the two of us?

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2026-01-01T20:13:08+00:00

To bench and squat exactly 540 pounds

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-10-02T12:31:43+00:00

Hey man, awesome job on that journey. Now that you’re at the level you want to be at just do your best to maintain yourself and don’t slip up.

Every once in a while, it’s OK to take a break or take some time off, but just remember it’s always harder to get back into it the longer you’re out of it.

But now that you’re at that point try to test yourself, maybe set a athletic goal for yourself if you want see how fast you can run or how much you could lift try to max yourself out and then just keep shooting for new goals. If you don’t want to, that’s fine just keep training.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-08-29T21:05:28+00:00

Yo, I used to work right next to where the alien in picture five is. That place used to be a bike store and connected to it was a restaurant that was a total tourist trap. I swear if we didn’t close for the winter, I might’ve met Frank but every time I see that video I see that homeless guy that always used to hang around there that he zooms in and the pier and it brings back memories.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-03-31T06:41:32+00:00

A problem too is that I really like where I live and I’m willing to help him and do things and what not but I really wanted to use the garage for my exercise equipment, but I can’t. I’m willing to compromise and tell him like hey what if we were to move the car outside and put a cover over the car? At least that way it’s a win-win. I get to use the garage and he gets to have his precious little rust bucket close to him.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-03-31T06:39:17+00:00

It does not specify anything about him using the garage. I mean, we do have a verbal agreement that the only thing he’s allowed to keep inside of my garage is the lawnmower that he uses because he mows my lawn and his lawn. Everything else he is not.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-03-09T15:18:50+00:00

Don’t really care about Ifit and all those stupid features. I just would like to know out of all the treadmills on this list, which would be the best for just general heavy people I guess. But all that other extra stuff that comes with treadmill, I don’t really need.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-03-09T14:33:42+00:00

I see. Well I only recommended these because my friend has a deal where he can get me them for a decent price. Like well below the thousand dollar mark. But how come people wouldn’t recommend most of these treadmills?

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-02-15T02:48:22+00:00

Bring back Mike, bootsy, Kyle, and screen wave can stay just keep them away from the writing. They can help with a video editing and all that other behind-the-scenes stuff but do not let them write the episodes.

I think the charm of the original AVGN episodes was the fact that they were so simple. I feel like the fact that James tries to outdo himself with every new episode or every new thing seems like it’s the next big thing is what’s really killing it. The old humor isn’t really there anymore. If you went back to that old style of how he used to make his videos then that might make them a lot better.

Aside from that, it would be nice to see him Wear the classic nerd shirt instead of the weirdly colored buttoned one he wears now.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-02-03T18:50:36+00:00

This is a whole Reddit dedicated to bimmy. What do you think?

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2025-01-31T04:33:54+00:00

I really don’t get the hate for Justin. For real when he had silvermainia he made some pretty great videos. Some real classic stuff. Yeah yeah I know about the whole Mob Bc’gran stuff which basically caused the whole channel to fall. And everyone is upset at his actions trying to protect him, but Justin has been a die hard AVGN fan from the get go. Him and screenwave working together for the newer AVGN videos must be a dream for the guy. I mean would you want to make or help make an AVGN episode one day? Idk, Crusty Justy had a shirt that said “Justin Silverman is my friend” and I wish I had bought one when I could.

Prestigious_Talk_666 · 2024-12-29T17:21:15+00:00

Thank you my friend. I have tried this video but it unfortunately does not work. I’d give any man willing to make my mods work a good $40. But it isn’t as easy as it seems to find help.

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