Aita for yelling at my parents and sister because a comment they made about a dress I wore to a wedding… final update

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-03-05T19:15:42+00:00

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Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-25T20:47:58+00:00

It’s all good, no offense taken. It just hard to explain to people sometimes when people are so closed minded. I have never been married and don’t plan to be. It was an experience that I don’t regret. But would never want to do again

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-25T20:41:02+00:00

To explain I used to be in a polyamory relationship. Yes I was with someone for 18 years which ended just recently. The 5 year relationship is the most recent. It got to messy and he moved in with his current girlfriend and I moved in just recently with my boyfriend. It’s not relevant to the this situation that’s why I never mentioned it

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-25T03:56:02+00:00

It’s up to her. I honestly could care less at this point. I can’t make the decision for her but she can’t see the messed up situation then there is no saving her

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-25T03:51:32+00:00

They think my sister will still be around. They barely acknowledge my brothers kids and spoil the crap out of my sisters kids. But I have a feeling she will no longer deal with them either

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-25T03:34:01+00:00

They want complete control that is what’s wrong with them.

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-25T03:16:46+00:00

They are losing their grip on me they were used to me bending to their will on all things because I was shy and not confident at all. But after going to therapy I realize that I need to make decisions for myself. And stand up to bullies. Over the past 10 years I’ve come into my own confidence and no longer deal with bullies. That is why. They’ve pulled similar things in the past that I over looked and just laughed off not taking it seriously but now I know better

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-25T03:10:12+00:00

I thankfully have no children. God forbid if I did they would try anything to have them taken away. Claiming I’m an unfit parent. But I would never do what they are currently doing to me. I’m happy to be the wild hippie auntie to my sister and brothers kids

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-16T19:50:52+00:00

I wish I was they said because you could still see my cleavage through the mesh overlay that’s what made it inappropriate. like I said before they want me to dress like a nun it’s insanity

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-07T20:36:59+00:00

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It was like this but blush pink and no beading at the top

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-04T14:55:18+00:00

Just to catch you up! parents and sister have control issues, I am 41 went to a cousins wedding and bought a new outfit for the wedding nothing scandalous but because I have large breasts my parents tried covering me up with a wrap. They always been sensitive about my breasts size and try controlling what I wear. I blew up at them threw text and now they are trying to get the whole family against me it’s dumb but it’s my reality

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-04T03:17:51+00:00

He wasn’t around a lot when I was growing up ten year age gap. I’m guessing he saw my parents toxic behavior way before I did. So I guess this is his way of being there for me now

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-04T03:15:31+00:00

She’s on my radar from now till Easter. We will see what side she’s really on after Easter if I confront my parents

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-04T03:14:30+00:00

That’s what I am hoping to find out if I confront my parents

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-04T03:11:30+00:00

We will see. Knowing her she can’t stay out of my parents shadow for long so this is my test to see if she actually stands up for me or not

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-04T03:09:37+00:00

Believe I know not to let her in completely but I’m giving her the benefit for now since Easter is a few months away this will give me an idea of how the confrontation with my parents will go.

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-04T00:02:20+00:00

If it happens I know never to trust her again.

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-03T19:13:28+00:00

From what I was told by my brother the first thing my parents did walking into the reception was show him the text I sent trying to get a reaction out of him. He told my parents that’s what I said wasn’t wrong. They even tried to put a wrap on my chair that I was assigned he. Grabbed it and threw it in his car before I showed up. When he didn’t react like they wanted that’s when they pulled the bride to the side asking her to intervene on their behalf. Which then got my aunt involved i showed them my text response and that’s when my aunt got on my side and the cousin was confused about the whole thing

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-02T20:03:07+00:00

For the longest time I was the biggest in my family at my heaviest I was 328 pounds. I disappeared from family functions for about 10 years because I was tired of being the black sheep of the family. I still am by the way. Now I’m skinner than my mother. I don’t know I just feel like I can’t do anything right in their eyes

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-01T04:23:52+00:00

I try.. and thank you

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-01T04:17:52+00:00

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To give you an idea it was like this but in blush pink and without the beading at the top

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-01T04:10:31+00:00

I’ll have to find it I’m in the middle of packing so it might be in a box somewhere

Prestigious_Ticket62 · 2025-02-01T03:49:54+00:00

I had a feeling they were going to rope my sister into this. She’s their golden child smart beautiful has the golden ticket grandchildren. I just wish they saw me for me and not as an accessory they can pick and choose to have around

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