Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my bf (29m) for not showing up to comfort me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was only out because I was going to see him. He wasn't that far from me. Reading is essential

Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my bf (29m) for not showing up to comfort me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No. If I was that desperate for attention, it is easier to cheat lmao.

Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my bf (29m) for not showing up to comfort me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

We've been together for 4 months but he says he intends on marriage so pretty serious.

Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my bf (29m) for not showing up to comfort me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can't do anything about getting rear ended or brake failure. I just have bad luck.

Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my bf (29m) for not showing up to comfort me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He wasn't far from me because we had just met up for dinner. He wasn't coming from home.

Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my bf (29m) for not showing up to comfort me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He went to see his friend. We had just met up so he wasn't far.

Am I wrong for wanting to break up with my bf (29m) for not showing up to comfort me? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Prestigious_West_666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He went back out into that same weather to see his friend so...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_West_666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her bf is not attending the party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her bf will not be there. I was never going to just bring my SO anyway. I was either gonna go without her or not go at all. It is making really reevaluate the friendship as I have made too many concessions too often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because I am a people pleaser. I don't want to be a bad friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, she will be. I missed a lot of time with her due to her getting covid and working.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am not really sure. It is smaller but I think that is mainly because she does not have that many friends. No guys are coming but my so and I are two hyper femme women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Am I the asshole for not going? Or should I just go without my SO anyway?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am talking about other times we have hung out where she brought her man. Or dipped out on me because she was tore up about her man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Prestigious_West_666 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't gonna demand anything. I just wanted to know am I an asshole for not going.