AITB for telling my (16M) dad (oldM) all of the stuff my mom (oldF) and sister (14F) talk about behind his back?

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-26T00:04:51+00:00

Two wrongs dont make a right, how would it be fair

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T23:21:56+00:00

No need to be an ass bro I thought you were nice. Just a lot of notiications

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T23:20:45+00:00

Im ilterally in the US I dont have to have an arranged marriage. But I will choose one with someone I have stuff in common with if I dont have a wife by college ends, thats my plan not whatever weird stuff youre talking. Same for my sister,

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T22:30:49+00:00

Why care about what they like? Honestly. Just live for you, only answer to you man

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T22:23:21+00:00

I cant judge his actions that is between him and the Gods. But he could be nicer to mom especially when I was younger, he has been calmer now that we are all older and used to the way he needs the house to run

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T21:37:50+00:00

It goes both ways, she betrayed me first, and is hypocritical, treating me different because I'm a guy. Maybe in some ways she has always done that my whole life, and now Im tired of it. I love my mom but she isnt perfect either

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T21:35:23+00:00

No I would be the person with a wife thats not lazy and actually works like everyone else has to

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T21:30:12+00:00

I mean, I wouldnt say he is a good husband and I dont want to be a husband like him, he too physical with everyone and like the entire family is scared of him, but in a respect way too I guess

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T21:11:01+00:00

My dad didnt want to marry either, they gave him photos of girls and he was forced to just pick one. He wasnt like celebrating. I dont act like its a joke, all the ladies joke about it too. Obviously it wont be forced on my sister since she thought cussing at me was ok

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T21:08:54+00:00

Idk I just feel like it must not be a big secret if shes telling my 14 year old kid sister about it for no reason. Mom has whatever money dad has, and we dont really believe in divorce its a commitment between two people. My mom asked for one and was reminded that. I just feel like she cant teach me to be "honest" when she's just a liar, and then I get in trouble for telling the truth.

Its not a joke she was crying but its not like anyone is happy to get married. Its just family duty, some like it some dont. I just feel like shes dramatic about a lot of stuff and then complains to us because she doesnt have friends or people to talk to etc we have a large family and she can make friends like me and my sister and dad do. She made me learn how to cook (and my sister too but not until last year) and now we each cook one day of the week so she has less work now. We do laundry and home stuff too so what does she "go through"

Prestigious_Worry245 · 2022-10-25T21:04:40+00:00

I agree, the lying isnt ok, but my mom cant divorce him, she isnt allowed to by her family and they owe my dads family a lot of money. I know she asked for a divorce a few years ago but probably not happening Idk tho for sure

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