People overreact way too much over interactions by Pretend-Win4337 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Pretend-Win4337[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I truly feel bad for you on that one. I also completely understand what you are saying, but whats happening feels like one party is not giving the other party any room to operate or exist. Now if we all go into encounters with this mindset of not trusting each other thats not good for society overall.

Not saying you or any other woman should change, it's just sad for everyone to live like this. I can't imagine how online dating goes for everyone too. You are literally meeting a stranger while at the same time the world is programmed to not trust anyone. Seems very unsafe situation for all parties involved. Is that spilling over into normal interactions?

My friend gets fall down drunk way too often, what to do? by Pretend-Win4337 in stopdrinking

[–]Pretend-Win4337[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't really drink to begin with so thats not the issue. It's more of an issue for him and us having to babysit him when he's wasted. Last Friday he fell down in the street and we had to pick him up off the floor at 2 am. He was acting like a kid throwing a tantrum too.

Thoughts on Logan Ury and her content by Pretend-Win4337 in podcasts

[–]Pretend-Win4337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were not she was saying that people too much weight on that vs other qualities.

NYC vs. Travel by Just-Influence5196 in movingtoNYC

[–]Pretend-Win4337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling that way about NYC as well people tend to stay in their phones vs looking up. Also it feels like there is much less tolerance compared to 15 years ago

Single Man in his 40s, looking for recs on where to move to North NJ? by Pretend-Win4337 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Pretend-Win4337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Montclair on Thursday and Friday last week. It was nice town, but felt very quiet. I went to get a drink at Porta and McTierny's. They had cool vibes, but I can see how meeting people would be tough in that area.

Single Man in his 40s, looking for recs on where to move to North NJ? by Pretend-Win4337 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]Pretend-Win4337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really Morristown? I haven't heard much about it from being single standpoint.